At our school of 300 i am one of the kids that is looked up to. Everyone respects me because i am a good kid and......um my dad is the principal. I don't fit anywhere in the social clicks in our class and i have very few friends. Plus i am hated because of my dad being principal and because i am athletically better than some of them.With friends i just can't stand the guys in our grade because the a perverts. I would rather hang out with the girls.I am not gay!!! I just wanted to know what someone would do in this situation.
2007-06-06 17:43:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think that u r just fine where u r at. dont let those kidss get under ur skin. sometimes i feel that way at school but the friends i have help me through it just like urs can
2007-06-06 17:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by niataowens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion would be to travel outside of the normal social scene if it's not giving you the stimulation that you need. You sound very mature, try hanging out with some of the older crowd,( Careful! Not too much older) Just to break the monotony. That small group of 300 is not the only option here. Take up a new and exciting hobby, try some things that you've never done before. Live a little, and remember to think outside of that box.
2007-06-07 01:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by mysticprincess74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you are too worried about what you think other people think of you. It is none of your business, it is your business what you know is true about yourself. Treat others as you wish to be treated no matter how they act. Do things for others with out expecting anything in return. Be kind, loving, caring and giving. You will like yourself even better and others will naturally like you too. Those who choose not to like you, you don't need anyway leave them behind.
You will also find in your later years that most of the people you know in school you will never see again. And you will wonder why it was so important what they were about and doing. They are not going with you on your life journey.
2007-06-07 00:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me be the first to tell you .... every one changes after high school! DO what you like to do and forget about every one else opinion. 'Cause that's all it is, is their opinion. Just have fun and don't sink to their immature level. I think it's fantastic that you recognize that a lot of the guys are just perverts. I always just hung out with my buddies, just a bunch of guy friends, and always had a blast. Best of all my parents didn't mind because they knew the guys were always watching out of me and not just out to get in my pants! Don't get me wrong, sure I wanted one or two of them, but never crossed that line. Good luck! I know it's tough but just be you and don't conform just to fit in!
2007-06-07 00:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by Linz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just sound mature for your age..this is good but can cause social problems with ppl your own age. I wouldn't worry...in my opinion the best quality of ppl fall into this category. In a couple years, none of this will matter so have fun!
2007-06-07 00:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by Basquephantom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wether you are or not doesnt matter, they are gonna call you it. if not to spite you, to spite your dad. you just have to find some good friends. Girls or guys. They will accept you no matter what the outside opinion is. And they wil carry you through school, no doubt. Dont let people get you down, when people talk about you, its only because you dont talk to them. they are jelous.
2007-06-07 00:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by hollaballa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be friendly, pleasant, laid back, and low maintenance. Then people will want to talk to you and then they'll se what a great person you are!
2007-06-07 00:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by Tialiarhetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋