my friend is writing her name is maria- hi am 18 and am pregnant my bf wants me to abort but am against abortion i have no moneyy nothing but am so sccared of raising this by mmyself what do i do?
2007-06-06 17:29:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Abort!
You have no money. Your boyfriend does not support your decision. You can continue with the pregnancy but what are the consequences? Will you be able to give the child a good life? What about college? Will you be able to marry with a child? Will the child have enough food and clothing? Will the child have a father? Will the child have a place to live?
What does God usually do with a fetus. Usually the fetus is aborted by God. And when God aborts he knows that it frees up enough resouces to save 12 of his other children that are suffering. So abotion is a noble cause. You sacrifice and you save 12 others.
Adoption is a false path. There are already millions of children up for adoption that will never be adopted. It is not the fault of those who adopt. They are saints for adopting. It is the fault of the pro life movement that is encouraging people to have babies they can't support. Adoption is by far worse than abortion. In abortion no one suffers a long life of pain. In having a baby that is unwanted you could be sentencing a child to a life of pain. By not having the fetus, you are laying the ground work for another child to be saved.
The only moral choice seems to be abortion.
But it is 100% your choice, not mine.
2007-06-06 23:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by Give me Liberty 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
DO NOT abort! if you dont want to abort an innocent baby then i understand that completely! this is your choice and not your boyfriends. if you have no money try and get a job, see if your family will help you out or think about adoption. theres so many people out there that cant have any kids but please dont kill your baby you will regret it for the rest of your life. if you want to talk more you can IM me i am also 18 and now 16 weeks pregnant and i couldnt be any happier! good luck!
2007-06-06 17:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by ஐ♥Sabine♥ஐ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There are many other options than abortion. Even though times are hard remember that all life comes from God. Many churches have programs to help women in your situation. I will be praying for you Maria.
2007-06-06 17:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by jesusgirl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only other option besides abortion and raising the child alone, is adoption.
2007-06-06 17:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who cares what he thinks whats more important him or yur own child! if he wants you to abort than forget him he dosent really love youhow can he love you if he dosent love his own child! your 18 your grown now to make your own choice dont abort or give up for adoption think about it how would you feel if your were giving for adoption! think about the child yes it be hard to take care by yourself but you should have know better when you decided to open your legs!!!
2007-06-06 18:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your family, explain to them that you really want this baby and see if they can support you.
If you want to raise this kid by yourself, you gotta be mentally prepared, it's not easy! Cash is a gonna get in the way as well. Stay strong gurl!
And one more thing, dump the guy. He's not being responsible for his actions.
2007-06-06 17:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't want to abort it, then don't. Your boyfriend can't tell you what to do. You are 18 so you are an adult. You can decide whatever you want to do. There are lots of single mothers who have done great things for themselves and their baby. Good luck!
2007-06-06 17:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by violentbeauty6 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
honey, stick to your beliefs! they are correct. i hate abortion, it is wrong in so many ways. there is always adoption, many nice loving couples cant have kids!
if you feel you jus cant give the baby up(i know i couldnt) there are many places that can help you! they can help you go to school, get childcare, and a home. do what is in your heart. i think it is telling you already!
2007-06-06 17:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by taryn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SORRY SWEETIE BUT I THINK THE BEST THING IS TO GIVE THE BABY UP FOR ADOPTION.GET RID OF THE LOSER BOYFRIEND AND MAKE SURE TO BE ON BIRTH CONTROL AND USE CONDOMS ALSO IN THE FUTURE.GET YOUR EDUCATION SO YOU CAN SUPPORT YOURSELF.YOUR BOYFRIEND DOESN'T WANT THIS BABY OR YOU PLEASE REALIZE THIS AND KNOW YOU WILL BE DOING THIS CHILD A FAVOR BY GIVING IT TO A LOVING FAMILY WHO CAN TAKE CARE OF HIM .GOOD LUCK.
2007-06-06 18:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 19:43:24 · answer #10 · answered by edmondson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋