my boyfriend and i made a mistake, we had unprotected sex. i missed my period and i think i'm having other signs of pregnancy but my mind could be playing tricks on me...right? i'm young and i can't tell my parents ever. when my sister did they hated her. if i'm positive an abortion is obvious...can i get one for free? i'm really scared and just need some advice, don't scold me because i already know i made a mistake. thanks :)
2007-06-06 15:54:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Even if you are pregnant, you can't make your mistake go away by getting an abortion. That's a choice you will live with for the rest of your days and many women suffer for years - physically and emotionally - from the trauma of letting an abortionist kill their child.
The best way to get on the road to healing is to be honest with your parents, and if you are pregnant, do the right thing for your child and give it up for adoption. Your parents will respect you for making this sacrifice. And they will always love you.
2007-06-06 16:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by Veritas 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not scolding, but: if you knew you would have this problem and that abortion was your only option why not just protect yourself?
Okay, no I don't think you will be able to get an abortion for free, and not without your parent's signature. I'm sure your parents were disappointed in your sister, but hate is such a strong word. They just want a steadier life for her I'm sure. However, I don't know your parents but I'm sure it would be scary to tell them. The worse that can happen is that they will be disappointed for a while, right? They cannot kill you, like you shouldn't do to your baby if you are pregnant. If you take a test, and it is positive do the adult thing and sit your parents down and let them know how sorry you are, and that you know you made a mistake. But, let them know that you need their help and support now and remind them that they are your parents and that is what parents should do. Together, with your boyfriend make the decision to keep or adopt, but abort should never be an option!! If you are not pregnant, from now on use protection! Things are not as bad as they seem. The best of luck to you and your boyfriend!
2007-06-06 23:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by Hope P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know of any clinics that will do an abortion for free. If you can, go to the drug store and get a pregnancy test. As far as I know, all minors need a parents permission for an abortion (if you are under 18). If you are adult enough to have unprotected sex, you are going to have to be adult enough to speak to your parents if you are pregnant. If they are against abortion, I'm not sure what you can do about that other than have the baby if you are pregnant. Your other option is adoption.
2007-06-06 23:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by amyaz_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off how OLD are you? 2nd got to the chemist and buy an over the counter test, I 1st got pregnant @ 16 N was scared my mum went mental, but because i wanted to finish high school i had an abortion & there isnt a day tht goes by that i wish i hadnt done it & i think if you are uinder a certain age you'll need ya parents permission to get it done, but then again its different for every person, is there some on eu can talk to that u trust, like a best friend or some one @ ya local church, or maybe your doctor, they'll be able to give you all the help and advice you need, but i do think you need to tell your parents, you never know they might be more understanding this time, it helps to talk tho beleive me :) Ive been there b4 :)
2007-06-06 23:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by Tanz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i'm in the same situation!!..i just found your question through mine...but i havnt and would never even consider pregnancy, if i am, my parents are gona take it bad, and my ex's will take it worse (at least hes your boyfriend not your ex!).i dont have any money or a job but i would never kill my own baby...i really wish you wouldnt either..i'm sorry to hear though..good luck.
2007-06-06 23:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before jumping to conclusions, take a pregnancy test. if you are pregnant, there are other options...abortion isn't your only choice. and i'm sure your parents would be disappointed, but they wouldn't hate you. go to planned parenthood....they'll help you thru this.
2007-06-06 23:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by stevies_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to your parents, but find out if you're pregnant first
2007-06-06 23:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by SweetMelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋