I am afraid that they will tell me i have something........ Someone tell me something to make me not scared please?
2007-06-06 15:11:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Relax. The girly doctor can always be wrong about anything she says.
Say " Can I get another opinion somewhere please?"
or go to another one without telling the girly doctor.
2007-06-06 15:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you have reason to be scared at all I guess there's a possiblity that you might. The best thing to do, in my opinion, is first, realize that you probably don't. Secondly, if you do, at least you're finding out now and can do something about it. Most of the things that could go wrong down there are fixable. Some definitely aren't...but I would venture to say that MOST are. So, just keep a positive attitude, treat it like any other familiar trip to the doctors, and don't blame yourself for being worried.
And next time, maybe remember how scared you are now, and how you might prevent it in the future. Women are lucky enough to have almost total control over their bodies in a sexual manner...and they didn't always...so take advantage of that opportunity!
2007-06-06 22:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off, how old are you? The girly doctor is called a gynocologist and there's nothing to be scared about. The only way you could have something is if you've had unprotected sex and got an infection or have AIDS or something. When you go it's totally professional and they're really nice about it. Tell her that it's your first time and that you're a little scared. They will tell you what to expect and how it will feel. When you take a pap smear test, they will tell you that no news is good news. You shouldn't be worried, every girl has to go through it eventually.
2007-06-06 22:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be afraid you have something? Chances are its just going to be a routine checkup and every women, young and old do it. If your embarrassed look around you in the waiting and multiply that by five days a week. That's how many private women parts the Dr. has seen, maybe more so by the time he gets to you it's just another engine that needs looked at. Besides, if there is something wrong don't you want to find out and get it fixed? Not knowing I think would be the scary part and walking out of there with a clean bill of health and a co-pay will be like a bonus!
2007-06-06 22:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by DaBrat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At this point you're worrying about something you can't change. If you do have something you can't change it. Just deal with it and take is as a lesson learned. Be more careful. Remember how you feel right now and don't put yourself in a position to ever feel like this again. Like I said, you're worrying about something that can't be changed. If you've got something, you've got something. Too late to change that now, so just breath, go to the dr and do what needs to be done if you do have something.
2007-06-06 22:19:08 · answer #5 · answered by BoredinVA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not the best thing in the world but you do need to go. If you don't go somthing can be wrong and you will never know. The good thing is if you do go and they do find somthing then they can treat it right away. So just take a deep breath chill out and go. Its a good thing
2007-06-06 22:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by countrygirlrodeohorses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was really scared the first time i went too. i even still am a little uncomfortable sometimes...but think about this- if you don't go see your GYN you could have an STD and not even know and this could cause all kinds of problems, and you HAVE to get regular Pap tests to check for cervical cancer, which can save your life.
2007-06-06 22:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be scared? You would rather have the knowledge if something is wrong so it can be treated. Without knowing any specifics whatsoever all I can say is it will be fine.
2007-06-06 22:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by Capt_John_97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like most things in life, you gain the courage just by going through with it. After the first time, you won't be so intimidated on subsequent visits.
2007-06-06 22:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember everyone goes and remember that there are alot of people out there with stds and all different things and they find out so relax they will be able to treat it if you get anything and if you havent relle did it with anyone that you are sure about then u should be fine =] relax dont panic =]
2007-06-06 23:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by 7thangel a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋