When you get married, are you going to have kids?

Question

I was thinking about it, and if I ever get married, I dont want kids. no offence to anyone who doese have kids. I just couldnt stand kids, so annoying when there young lol. I mean the 10 -14 I can handle but under that I can't lol that sounds a little wierd. I'm 20 years-old I know and my mom keeps telling me "Oh you'll change you'r mind when you get older." But trust me I dont lol

like I said no offence to anyone.

Answer 1

You're only 20......enjoy your youth and worry about marriage and children later. I'm 43 and have 2 boys but didn't have them until I was in my 30's. Now is the time for partying and discovering the world. If you change your mind later, great and if you don't then that's great too.

Answer 2

When I was younger, I never wanted to have any kids either. When I met my husband, that all changed. It was really amazing that I loved someone so much that I wanted to have a baby with him. Turned out that he was sterile, I never had my babies and we are now divorced. Not because of the baby thing, but because he turned into a lying, cheating dog. Anyway, the point of this story is that you feel this way now, which is fine. You are still young, so don't even stress about it and you never know what life is going to be like down the road.

Answer 3

Yes, i am. I already have one.
You may change your mind, but even if you don't, that's OK too. Its not for everyone. Just make sure you inform anybody you get involved with that you're not interested, I've a friend who's trapped with a man who's decided he doesn't want them, and she's miserable.
10-14's the WORST, if u THINK u can handle that, u can definitely handle the younger ones.

Answer 4

I'm married, but no kids (yet). I might still be in a selfish phase, because when I think of having kids right now, I think of all the things I want to do that will have to be given up or postponed. I just want to accomplish a few things first, like finish school, travel with my husband, etc. If we don't end up having children, I don't think that I will be too disappointed. It scares me to think about raising kids in today's world anyway...

Answer 5

Nothing wrong with that.
Lots of people get married and never have kids.
My wife and I waited until we had good careers.
We adopted because we did not want to go thru childbirth.
When you get older, there is a LOT of 10-14 years olds looking to be adopted. Check the State Agency in your state.

Answer 6

You don't need kids to be a complete family.

but once felt like you, and after having a baby, I can't get enough of ANYONE'S baby, especially my own. And I used to avoid them like the plague.

You're 20-you have a good 10 years of partying and exploring the world ahead of you first.

Answer 7

I'm already married with 4 kids and very glad I have them. You could change your mind in a few years, I did.

Answer 8

I had the kid, never married...I think I did it backwards
You will change your mind as you get older about having children... because I am sure the woman you are with would want one and you will agree and you will end up loving your child. uhhhh man...didnt look at your pic. the man you are with.....sorry

Answer 9

No, I dont think I will. I dont believe that in order to be happy, you have to have the whole All American family. The white picket fence, and the children in the back yard. I dont like kids, and therefore, I dont want them

Answer 10

I'm not sure. I would love to have kids, but not untill they're past the whole snotty little kid stage....like an 8 year old and up would be good.