how do you know if you are gay or not? this lady that i know just told me a couple of days ago that she is gay and when she told me i got this weird feeling b/c i liked her when i didn't know she was gay but i like her even more and now i think she knows i like her so she flirts with me...but how do i really now if im gay? i've always thought i might be bisexual but i like the thought of being with a girl better than a guy....idk but i still like guys... please tell me what you think...you know im actually thinking about asking her about it and how she found out she was gay and i want to tell her i like her...do you think i should?im scared...im scared to think she doesn't like me....she is sooo much older than me...she is my mothers age....but i like her sooo much.... i know that is two questions but oh well...
2007-06-06 12:48:20 · 8 answers · asked by sweet_chick_always0814 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you think of women in more than a friendly way then you may be gay. That's only if you have no attraction to guys. I know it seems confusing. But it's something you just know. If this lady is someone you can confide in ask her. Maybe she can help you understand what these feelings are.
But I have to say go no further unless you are of age. Because that is a big no no.
Good Luck
2007-06-06 13:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by rated_x_stud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-06 00:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be attracted to anyone without having to adopt a label. It might be a one time thing - it might not be. I'd spend more time looking at your actions and less time trying to squeeze them into a box. Time will tell you what you need to know - give yourself time to let things unfold.
As far as this older woman -- if it's more than 10 years either way my rule is to not do it. ESPECIALLY with two people questioning their sexuality. It's a perfect recipe for heartbreak for someone. I'd talk to her about your questions but I'd keep all the cloths on.
2007-06-06 13:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by FTM D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u need 2 get down with somebody like me shawty...lol naw but 4 real umm...I mean u know fa sho when ur bi because you are attracted to both male and female from the way you are typing it seems like your bi to me and 4 the older woman you only gots one life , live it to da fullest and I mean you say you like her so y not ask her about it you'll neva know until you try I'm bi and I was scared to ask this gurl about something..lol but it all turned out good n the end cuz she liked me too but n e way like I said ask her she'll probably have the answer you are looking 4 good luck
2007-06-06 13:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by Cutie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know if you are gay ? look if you are gay you just know it . now if you feel sesualy atracted to this lady i think you should try to get to know her better. and if things are mant to be it will happen. but for that question only you know the answer
2007-06-06 13:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by cesarin12003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever be afraid to ask. I am not bi but I still think other girls are pretty but I don't ever think of kissing them or w/e cuz I only like guys. But anyway, just go 4 it and she will be happier if you open up to it more.
2007-06-06 12:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont try you will never know, how can we on here tell you what to do ? If you dont like it just walk away if you dont try it you will always think should I have done.
2007-06-06 15:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is wayy too old, i'm so sorry.
but seriously, go talk to her about it. if you'd like, tell her you like her, just don't get involved because its hugely inapropriate. just talk to her, ask her how she found out, etc. tell her you like her, if you'd like, just pleease don't do anything.
2007-06-06 12:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋