If you fell out big time about something with someone and exchanged some pretty harsh, and hurtful words would you hold a grudge against them?
What brings calm to the storm that rages inside you when angry?
2007-06-06 11:43:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
If that happened to me I'd calm down straight away..then I'd get a bucket of water and throw it all over them just to relieve tension....and bring some humour to the situation...then when we were finished laughing everything would be ok.
If I fell out with you the above would read the same except for the bit in the middle...like this:
If that happened to me I'd calm down straight away...and everything would be ok
2007-06-06 12:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by Citizen Mac 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a great question! I actually need a day or two. When I get that heated about something, it takes a lot of time, probably because I have a very bad temper. Crying sometimes does it for me. Hitting a person helps (usually not the person I'm mad at). Sleeping it off is good, too.
That's why I tell people not to push me 'cause it takes me a long time to get over it and in the meantime I can be quite a *****.
2007-06-06 14:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by Diamond Diva 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes me about 6-8 hours- and that's after the screaming, crying, rampaging, rude words, and fits. And then I do hold a grudge. The things that bring me to a rage are people either not doing what I say, disrespecting me, or not thinking I'm good enough. What can I say? I'm an aries...research it!
--Arya Block--
2007-06-06 11:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I usually hold a grudge and bring it back up occassionally if it is their fault. It's not right but that's what I do. And that's only after I've gotten physically violent by kicking and throwing things and crying hysterically. Usually I just pass out from my rage because I exhaust myself. I build up resentment for a long time.
2007-06-06 12:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by funkyfree4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It take me a long time to calm down and I hold a grudge for awhile. It has to be something that gets me very angry that will cause me to feel that way. I don't like the feeling.
2007-06-06 11:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I try not to, but sometimes I can't help it and I can hold that grudge for a minute (like up to a day). I try to find me a quite spot and try to work my way through the exchange mentally. During that time, I would rather not be bothered by that person.
2007-06-06 15:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by itsjustme 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seek inner peace and don't allow your emotions 2 take control of u....Don't allow the other persons ignorance 2 dominate your feeling..laugh at them out loud and let THEM continue 2 be hateful and hold a grudge...It frees u from the bull crap and puts YOU back in control of the situation!
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2017-01-10 17:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will only rage at someone as a last resort, after which I am not interested in having further contact with them. And this happens extremely rarely. ~
Perhaps once in 25 years.
2007-06-06 11:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always hold a grudge. To calm down, alcohol
2007-06-06 11:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by cptndaveahoe 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋