Me and my husband are married, but i am starting to get bored in our relationship. I am now more attracted to woman then i am attracted to men. So my question is how do i tell my husband i want a divorce and how do i tell him its because i am intrested in females. Also when would be the best time. Keep in mind i have two children of my own. And explaning it to them is going to be very difficult.
2007-06-06 11:02:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HOW ABOUT NOT BEING SO SELFISH AND THINK OF YOUR FAMILY FIRST.
2007-06-06 11:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by Phil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about you grow up and stop being so selfish. You're interested in other girls now.....who cares. There is temptation everywhere in every relationship, you're not the only one. Just because you FEEL a certain way doesn't give you the right to throw your hands up and give up on your marriage and kids. How about you do the right thing and go to marriage counceling. Be a big girl and tough it out. You'll just end up unhappy somewhere else down the road once you try getting divorced.
2007-06-06 11:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by thatgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! this is a hard one. What your say is you think your a latent lesbian?
Have you sat down with a doctor and talked with him, a minister of your parish? someone besides anyone on here? I would suggest, before you spill the beans, to speak with someone you can trust and get an opinion from them. At least an answer to what your seeking from a trusted comrade.
This happen to a good friend on mine. He was a cowboy, from Colo. Married 27 years, his wife decided she wanted to be with a woman and fell in love with one.
She just dropped the bomb on him and left. He went nuts, got drunk and wiped out at 100 miles an hour, of course killing himself.
I don't know what may have happen has she been a little more suttle, a little easier on him. Maybe he'd be here today.
Take it easy on the guy. The kids, don't ask for much, you won't be disappointed.
2007-06-06 11:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try being open with him. Perhaps you could find a woman to experiment with together. I wouldn't scrap the relationship just because you are bored. try to spice it up. Then if after trying several things, you find you truly don't love him, that will be the time to look at divorce. But try other things first.
2007-06-06 11:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by writenimage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really annoys me when people just get bored and decide they need something else in there life this crap about you suddenly like the company of women you are full of it. Grow up and take some responsibility there are many ways you can turn things around with your husband make the effort
2007-06-06 12:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From readin' what you asked, you and your husband are married. I think that's what it usually means. Maybe not.
However, if you bi-curious then go for it and your hubby might approve unless you want to get a divorce.
How to tell him? Just flat out tell him.
As far as the kids, that makes it difficult.
2007-06-06 11:09:41 · answer #6 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you guys just toss it up and include a female in your sex life its mean and shelfish towards not only your kids but your husband to divorce him just because your sexualy bored and going through a midlife crisis.
2007-06-06 11:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by Honey Badger Doesnt give a Shat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to some of his friend or relative,maybe they can break it to him.
as for the kids slowly explain it to them the earlier you do the better or else they'll hate you for lying
some what your kid gonna be horribly ridicule for this.
2007-06-06 11:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about a cruise or a quick vacation escape where you can talk and reconnect
2007-06-06 11:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no easy way....just tell him up front and be totally honest.
2007-06-06 11:06:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋