PLEASE ANSWER! its my last wish!?

Question

lifes a *****. yea. i know. life for me so far has been miserable to say the least...yea someone on heres gonna say something like "stop whining atleast ur alive." but without knowing my life u cant say that. i rather be dead. and now that i got a glimpse of happiness and found a guy that loves me so much...im dying! :'[. i have cancer and its at a pretty bad stage. doc's dont think that chemo will be guaranteed to work..so im most likely gonna die. do i have regretS? hell yea! but im content that atleast this cruel miserable life of mine is gonna end! and i'l be in heaven. but before i go i want all of you to answer these questions..why is it that life makes you cry all the time? or sometimes in some cases? why is it that humans tend to make life more complicated for each other? why do we make fun of each other and act like total jerks! we ought to love each other..help easen the burden of life. perhaps if everyone learned to be sweet, nice, and CONSIDERATE life would be DECENT!

i cant believe the ignorance and insensitivity that people posess...the answers i've read thus far basically say to me"who the **** cares if u die..who the **** cares if we are mean to each other...all of u go to hell!..if u cant be nice and want to be a jerk to everyone..u should go die.

Answer 1

Life can seem ungrateful and not always kind.
Life can pull at your heartstrings and play with your mind...
Life can be blissful and happy and free...
Life can put beauty in the things that you see...
Life can place challenges right at your feet...
Life can make good of the hardships we meet...
Life can overwhelm you and make your head spin...
Life can reward those determined to win...
Life can be hurtful and not always fair...
Life can surround you with people who care...
Life clearly does offer its Up and its Downs...
Life's days can bring you both smiles and frowns...
Life teaches us to take the good with the bad...
Life is a mixture of happy and sad...

So...

Take the Life that you have and give it your best...
Think positive, be happy let God do the rest...
Take the challenges that life has laid at your feet...
Take pride and be thankful for each one you meet...
To yourself give forgiveness if you stumble and fall...
Take each day that is dealt you and give it your all...
Take the love that you're given and return it with care...
Have faith that when needed it will always be there...
Take time to find the beauty in the things that you see...
Take life's simple pleasures let them set your heart free...
The idea here is simply to even the score...
As you are met and faced with Life's Tug of War

Answer 2

I've read the answers you've recieved thus far and I think that you percieved them to be bad. But they weren't. Quite a few were very uplifting. More people are gentle rather than jerks. But I really do believe that it's all up to you in how you read the answers. I am sorry that you are dying, I truely am. Life makes you cry, some humans make life for others for either pure enjoyment or because they just have not gone through life the ways others have, so they don't know. You're right about loving eachother. But sadly, that is not the case with many people. It is the way they are brought up, their beliefs, and to the influences in their life, along with their own decisions. But I have a question for you. If you are so content on the fact that your life is ending, then why are you looking for sympathy, or pity? Why bother to give details about your life? And then ask questions. And I am in no way bashing you or trying to be mean. You want answers and an understanding, as well as I.

Answer 3

I understand your anger. That is the first stage of grieving for the loss of your old self. I know, I am just a little ahead of you in the cancer process. I also have cancer, two kinds. I found out the same day I found out my daughter was going to bless me with a grandchild. I was a late stage three last yr. My kidneys were already shutting down when they found it. I had been sick for three yrs and we didn't know why. Some cancers are sneaky and hide for a long time. There was not a lot of hope for me either but....I am still here so far. You said the Drs say that chemo is not much of a hope, but they didn't say it was NO hope. All you need is a grain of hope. You can build on that, with your determination. I decided early on that while cancer might TAKE my life, I was not going to just GIVE it. None of us has a crystal ball that says when we are going to take our last breath. There are tragedies all around us if that is what we choose to see. Believe that you might achieve that which is possible, even though some might say it's improbable. Please try....NEVER give up. We don't know what joys may lie ahead if we just try. Life may have been hard for this very reason, to give you the tools you need now to fight when times are tough. Use all that anger to fight. You just might be surprised what your will can do. I am rooting for you!!!

Answer 4

Without having met you, let alone experienced your life, it would be hard for me to give you a very good answer to your questions.

But I can try ~hugs~

Life makes us cry because we care. It is the only life we've got. We want to do something with it. We want it to mean something. But often it's just so darn hard and frustrating. There are so many obstacles on our way that it feels as if someone is out to get us, even though it's all just "life".

Humans make life so hard for each other because they are desparate. Most of them feel wretched about their lives and they frantically try to improve things. But they act erratically and carelessly. People are a little bit like a big group of porcupines in a tight space. If they'd only calm down and not jump around when a slightest prick happens, things would be ok. But every time a person gets pricked, they spin around angrily and all the ones near them get hurt. And in turn, they too do their uncontrolled lashing out and pretty soon everyone is horribly hurt and none the wiser.

They make fun and act like jerks because they don't realize that there is nothing in it. They aren't sufficiently in touch with their feelings to be able to realize that part of the reason for their misery is that they lack kindness and warmth.

If everyone learned to be sweet, nice, and considerate, life would be much better than decent. Life would be pretty darn wonderful. You'd be able to wake up every day and feel nothing but boundless joy at the life you have. It would feel like you're so happy you could burst and you wouldn't be able to wipe the smile off your face no matter how hard you tried. Sure you may get laughter lines but you'd be too happy to care :)

~hugs~ Life is what it is. Often there is very little we can do to make it better. The only thing we can change is how we feel about how it is. I am so sad that you're ill. See, I haven't even met you. But somehow I feel that if I had, I would have really liked you. I would have really enjoyed talking with you and laughing with you. But you're dying. So the fact that I've never met you hurts even more. Because with all the nice people we run across here, there might be a faint hope in our hearts that on some random street in some random city in some backwater place in the world, we'd pass them. We may not recognize them, but we'd pass them and they will be real. That hope is enough to make life truly magical.

But if you died, then that hope would really be gone :( There would be nothing left. I'd have to accept the fact that no matter where I go or what I do, I'd never run into you. I really hope something magical happens and you get better. I'm sure it's possible. Because it would be so sad if instead of passing you on some random corner of some random street I ended up passing your grave as I walk through some little cemetery in a town I'll only visit for a day.

~hugs~ I hope so much you get better :) They say that where there is hope, there is life. Well, I hope there is life for you.

Answer 5

The thing is, is that people strive for perfection. The people who are mean to others and make life hard for the rest of the world just want to be able to accept themselves. Some of the meanest, most arrogant people actually hate themselves and are just looking for a step up. For the chance to bring someone else down to be better. And as much as we would like to have a perfect world..as long as humans have a right to freewill, it will probably never happen. I hope the rest of your life is the best it has ever been, and just dont give up hope because scientist look everyday for a cure for cancer, and it has to come about some day. It could be today or tomorrow or next week. Ive seen people with cancer get prayed for at my church and be clean the next doctor visit. Just never stop believing, and if you need anything..anything at all..Email me. Im here.

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Answer 6

First of all i would like to say that i hope that you will survive cancer, you will be in my prayers, and just stay strong and dont let anybody put you down, and just remember in all your rough times there will always be a friend or a family member lending a hand.okay so life makes me cry all the time because of the horrible things people do, or maybe i make mistakes in life and then i feel guilty. humans, tend to make life complicated for others because they are etheir insecure about themselves or they dont like a certain person, or theyre just plain mean. we make fun of eachother and act like total jerks, because some idiotic people think its "funny" or they want to look "cool", but i must say i have been a bully sometimes and i totally regret it, so i guess yea its wrong.. :(, but without all the wrong things in life and people treating you a way you learn things, you learn from all your challenges and obstacles , you learn who to trust in life, and you learn whos really your friend and who you should trust, you also learn who really loves you, and im sure that a ton of people love you and care for you, and would not want to see you so upset with all these things happening, so dont accept the rude tings people say to you, ignore them, just life your life to the fullest. im sure that the guy your with adores you, and he wouldnt want to see you so sad, ..and your totally right, we ought to love eachother, we are all in this world toghetther and we need to make this world a better, place i am glad that you deicided to ask this question , its pretty much the best one ive seen in a while. and you will recieve great answers. i wish you the best :],

also this one question really got to me,well im 13 and i havent really lifed my life to its fullest.. and its kind of the only answer i put alot of thought into, because people take life for granted so much.. and well you know i just hope that these diseases and such will stop, i hope they find new cures.

also i know i answered this b4 with the same answer in your old question, but here i'd like to add something.. if someone gives you wrong answers they are just being mean, and tey are trying to put you down, just believe in yourself , but also theres karma, so dont say anyting rude to the person being mean, because what goes around comes around.. :(

bless you :]

Answer 7

Honey I'm sorry you've been delt such a lousy lot. I know when you get to heaven there will be no pain, just love.

People are ignorant and some like to play cruel games cus it makes them seen more powerful or gives them a sense of controlling someone else.

You're right people are jerks and don't realize what they do have until it is to late.

Love to you.

Answer 8

While you are here I hope you make the best of it. I had relatives that died from cancer. And the idea about it is that I am going to thank God for the time i've had and the time I have left. If you truly believe in a God and a heaven find peace in him persever and do your best. Be thankful for your blessings and try to be a blessing to somebodies life.

Answer 9

why is it that life makes you cry all the time?
We have all expect so mush from life, I guess when we fall we think life fail us. Ups and downs that is how life is. I have cried so many times, I just keep holding to hope, keep expecting something else something more.

why is it that humans tend to make life more complicated for each other?
Because most humans don't want to think about their oun lives and making someone elses life miserable help them to get distracted from their patetic lives.

I would choose to cry all my life instead of making someone else miserable.

Answer 10

If life didnt have really hard times in it it wouldnt be life. (at least in my opinion) Believe me I know what it feels like to be you. I've been raped, had very abusive relationships and was diagnosed with throat cancer. I have BIG issues with (god) and I've been angry and did the whole numbing with drugs thing, but there comes a point where you gotta stop feeling sorry 4 youirself and just be happy and live life while you can.GOOD LUCK!!!!!