I can't keep an erection?

Question

I am 25 and I have been with two women. I have recently started dating a new gal and she's great. Problem is, I can't keep it hard. I am anxious about disease so we both got tested. Now I am still anxious about disease, and about getting her pregnant even though she is on the pill. I can't get it hard even with a condom. If it does get hard and it stays that way long enough to get it in, I orgasm in about 2 seconds. She is very patient and understanding, but how do I overcome this? I am pretty sure it's all in my head, because I can get it hard other ways but when I am with her it just doesn't work. help me!

Answer 1

masterbate before hand and lots of foreplay.

Answer 2

He's probably just getting old so its just nature so unless this is very important for the 2 of you just leave it be. Otherwise as stated in previous answers you should try new things and act out each others fantasies to spice things up. If you feel that you need to resort to something like viagra although I have to say I advice that you shouldn't if he is able to get a full erection and ejaculate. If you feel you need to resort to this make an appointment with his doctor or consult a medical expert (urologist) since buying drugs online can be potentially dangerous since it's possible that you could be getting scammed.

Answer 3

Try large amounts of alcohol and masturbation and having sex with her more often. It may take a few months but you will relax. Don't worry about disease, you are together and have been tested and that should be the end of that

Answer 4

at 25 you should be gaining some control, however i think the fear of everything is zapping the sexual freedom you might have if you just relax. try petting more and increase the time before you release. try backing off when you feel like your getting overly excited make it last. even if you have to kiss and fondle for an hour it will make you harder and last longer. try alot of masturbation also, this will also increase your staying power good luck and stop worrying so much!

Answer 5

put a rubber band at the base of penis,and try to distract your thought train while you are mounting,start thinking about your boss when you think you are cuming.If the other partner is co operative , pull out your penis and squeez tightly at the glans for a couple of seconds when you feel that you are near

Answer 6

your problem seems to be in your pants but its actually in your heart-get your ducks in order and you will be fine-unless you have an inner physical blood problem

yet here its like to ask the blind and get led astray

what you need is true love honor and trust-and then marriage-where sex is blessed "In marriage the bed is undefiled, but the others will be judged."

if a girl isnt worth marriage she isnt worth your time-at 25 where will you be in 1 year 5 years? 10 years 100 years?

this helped me in more ways than one to get a new start

=is the home of choice-yet lives in America where people-just make millions leading the blind.

and John 3 repented of my sins asked Jesus in and got born again=prayed=

"Jesus I am sorry for my sins come into my heart and help me, be my best friend, amen."

Revelation 3:19&20 "I Jesus love you and speak from heaven to let you know that I knock on your heart door to come in and be your friend, when you repent from sin (even one lie) and ask me in."

Worked for me and keeps me happiest ever in my life, the sweet pea praying for thee,
have the best ever day!

Answer 7

Anxiety could be blocking other emotions. Learn to relax.

Answer 8

Yes, you have way to much swimming around inside your head.

Answer 9

its just your head, no one here can help you nor can a doctor, you gotta relax thats the main prob, so up tight, once u can relax u can enjoy,

Answer 10

Go have a talk with you doctor -- primary care or psychiatrist.

Answer 11

Viagra lots and lots of alcohol or lots and lots or masturbating.