i'm really upset about this
TJ was almost sad when i started dating my bf. we "went out" to coffee all the time when i thought we were just chillin' and he says "i always hoped there'd be something more,"
i wrote him an email that ended with
"please leave me alone, i'm hurt and you don't understand.
Love Danelle"
should i talk to him tonight when i see him??
2007-06-06
07:55:49
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Lacie
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We met in church and pray for each other alot. he hasn't ever made any "moves" and I treat him like and older brother. he doesn't really have girlfriends at all, but is not gay either. he had a hard time with people in high school and i think that hes just glad to have changed a bit and made a friend.
2007-06-06
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update #1
well you are 15...you are WAY too young to be with a 20 year old and he is only looking for the fact to get something out of you, and that something is S E X. There is nothing more.
Just leave him alone and give him time, or just move on. Wait until you are 18 to be with him, he can wait for you.
2007-06-06 07:59:36
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answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5
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Danelle,
Sweetie if you are only 15 there is no way on this earth should you be talking to a man - Grown *** Man - Something aint right with him to want to have a 15yr juvenile as a friend. That is questionable. That seems a little fishy to me. Getting hooked up with you could land him a life time membership as a Sex Offender. - So no you shouldn't talk to him at all :) Hope all works out for you and Stay away from him. Let your mother know that he wants to be your friend and he all of a sudden likes you and see what she thinks about it. I don't think that she would be very happy. :) Lady
2007-06-06 08:08:32
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answered by ? 1
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What a 20 yr old guy wants, is to get into your pants. Everything else is just a line to get you to drop your drawers sweetheart. Best thing to do is let your parents know -
It is inappropriate for a 15 year old girl to be messing around with a 20 yr old guy. He's got 5 more years experience than you do on how to smooth talk a cute kid so that she'll have sex with him. The rest is just filler.
Should he succeed, he'll be liable for satutory rape -- which is a manditory jail term in our part of the world.
2007-06-06 08:04:06
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answered by squeezie_1999 7
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you could no longer make a headstrong and obdurate fifteen year previous comprehend something is erroneous. i'm confident which you have been a teenager and concept which you have been all effective and all-understanding at that element (besides the certainty that it wasn't real.) If human centers/ infant welfare replaced into contacted and not something is being finished, the only different determination you have is to touch the police. considering her mom and father have in certainty grew to become their backs on her, she would be waiting to maximum probable finally end up in foster care. this would grow to be a great concern, or a terrible one. i do no longer comprehend the age of consent the place your goddaughter is living, yet while she is seen "of age" she would be able to p.c. to "date" everybody she chooses, besides the certainty that it may't be seen to be proper in different's eyes. The aunt sounds as though she isn't the main to blame and mature of adults, and subsequently she is allowing a twenty year previous pot smoking guy to stay in her abode with a 15 year previous. in case you do pass to the police, you would be able to correctly be asked to grow to be this lady's momentary parent, so which you would be able to must be keen to try this to confirm that issues to advance. I desire you and your goddaughter the final.
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answered by deangelo 3
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A five year gap when you are a teen is huge. When you are over 20 it's not so huge. He should know better. They used to call it jail bait when an adult went after someone under 16. He needs to grow up a bit and not put you in this situation. However one thing that is in his favour is that he was very honest with his feelings for you and that is kind of sweet.
2007-06-06 08:01:25
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answered by Anonymous
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no way! What in the world does a 15 year old kid and a 20 year old man have in common? You need to stay as far away from him as possible. Concentrate on your boyfriend (who is hopefully your own age) If this guy keeps bothering you tell your parents.
2007-06-06 08:00:48
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answered by urstruly8604 5
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Absolutely not! There is no reason why a 20 year old should want "something more" from a 15 year old.
You were right to tell him to leave you alone. Be strong.
2007-06-06 08:02:00
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answered by Anonymous
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stay away from him he knows that he is too old for you. you should show the emails to someone who can help you because it is wrong that he is harassing you
2007-06-06 08:15:36
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answered by BiG Stylin 5
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I will give him some time and space to think about what he did.
2007-06-06 07:59:36
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answered by Teen 2
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this you must ander stand ask your hard
2007-06-06 08:03:41
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answered by shahem a 1
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