A guy I dated for 5 years told me he would be out of state for work for a while so he didn't want to be considered"B/F & G/F,but when he came back in town we were "TOGETHER!" . I recently found out he is living with another woman and they plan to marry in July. He asked her in Feb. to marry and we were together in April! Should I tell her about this"MOOCH" as he already has maxed one of my credit cards to over $10,0000 or do I just stay away and keep out and let her get traumatized.
TO TELL or NOT to Tell ?
I appreciate your help in advance. Thanks!
2007-06-06 06:51:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
wow you got owned! go for it let the world know,
2007-06-06 06:55:22 · answer #1 · answered by tiny2kool 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her because if it's not you...it'll be someone else! He's a compulsive cheater and that other girl doesn't have to go through with it. Tell her before they plan any more of the wedding and before it's too late. Once their married, the might have kids and he might continue to cheat. The they'll get a divorce and the kids will have to grow up with a split family and what not. You have the ability to prevent all of this and no let him ruin anyone else's lives. Do it!
Best of luck and hopefully you find yourself a better man as well.
Cheers!
Thistle
2007-06-06 14:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by Scottish Thistle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. That's a tough call. It would depend on how you know that woman. Maybe he's a different person with her but she should know. It would be better if it didn't come from you though or you'll seem like you're interfering. If you have a mutual friend that could tell her, that would be best and the friend could give her your contact info. If she wants to contact you after she knows, then that would be better than you contacting her directly. Good luck. I hope you get your money back.
2007-06-06 13:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by Just Me Alone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Unless he signed a contract agreeing to pay you the ten grand, I'm afraid your chances of recovering your money are slim. You'd be doing her a favor by telling her, but get some protection. He may come after you.
2007-06-06 14:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by Bill Melater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell and then i would take him to court for the credit card but appolgise to her say you didnt know when he came back when you found out you told her
2007-06-06 13:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by The Steve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her, darn right. Us women owe it to each other to tell each other things like this. Wouldn't you have wished someone told you? And if she doesn't believe you, oh well her loss in the end.
2007-06-06 13:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by ♠Room for One♠ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell, for all you know there may be others
2007-06-06 13:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rat him out like the rodent he is and then call an attorney about the 10 g's
2007-06-06 13:55:27 · answer #8 · answered by itsmyopinionsothere 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
definitely tell her!...unless she knew about you, then in that case she deserves to be sucked dry. LOL.
2007-06-06 13:58:45 · answer #9 · answered by Jacqueline 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her!! It would be better for her to find out now than later...and trust me she will find out sooner or later
2007-06-06 13:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by krazykat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell just to get the weasel!
2007-06-06 13:55:49 · answer #11 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋