I have tried many contraceptive pills but didn't get o or putn with them( they made me feel depressed). I am now going to try the patch. Condoms aren't reliable enough I want something extra to ensure I do not get pregnant. Nothing seems to be side effect free....it's not too much to ask is it!!
2007-06-06 05:35:22 · 17 answers · asked by kchick8080 6 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yes, I am in a long-term relationship. We use condoms and will continue to do so; but I want to be doubly safe because there have been ocassions when the condom has split and I have had to take emergency contraception; this is not something I want to do. Maybe I am asking too much!
2007-06-06 22:30:22 · update #1
OK, well there arer many types on contraception, and as we all know, it takes a while for a woman to find the type that suits her best. Possibilities are;
Condoms
Femidoms
The diaphragm and the cap
The sponge
Combined Pill
Progesterone only pill
The Patch
The Coil
The implant
The contraception injection (2 types available)
Natural birth control
I took around 3/4 years to find the right pill for me, it's called Loestrin. You can get in 2 sorts. Loestrin 20 or Loestrin 30. I use 30. All the difference is the level of hormones in each pill. Have you tried this one?
Make an appointment with a family planning clinic nurse. She'll be more understanding than a GP, afterall she specialises in the this area as well as conception. She'll be able to give you advice based on your experience on what to consider. Go in open to suggestions.
Wha I will say is that if you plan on trying for a family within the next 2 years, stay away from the injection. If not then you can consider it.
The natural method conisits of timing intercourse right. You need to chart your fertility and know what days to avoid having intercourse around and on your fertile days.
The diaphragm or the cap may be what your looking for, they cover your cervix, therefor acting as a barrier to sperm. You need to insert one each time prior to sex (a few hours before roughly) and left in place for about 5-6 hours after sex. The sponge is similar, however it is far from common. It has spermicide within it, and is put in to cover your cervix, again acting as a barrier. It is not as affective as other forms, only around 70 - 90%. There is also a risk of infection if left in place for too long.
These are the ones I know off the top of my head, I'm sure The nurse at the FPC (family planning clinic) can discuss these and any other options in more detail for you.
Hope you find what your looking for.
2007-06-06 21:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are unlikely to be any better on the patch, it is an uncommonly used method of contraception, mainly because it is not generally liked. I would tend to avoid both these and implants.
There is no perfect method. I agree condoms are excellent in that they reduce the STD risk, there only real problem is their fail rate.
Standard coils increase period problems. Mirena coils are increasingly popular and may indeed reduce or even stop periods.
If you have tried several pills I would suggest you check if they were all combined oestrogen/progesterone? If you have not yet tried a mini (progesterone only) pill, it might be worth trying one of the newer ones Cerazette. If this does suit, but you either dislike taking a pill everyday or are at risk of forgetting, you could try depo-provera. Don't try the injection before trying the mini pill first as you cannot reverse the effects for 3 months if you don't like it!
2007-06-06 09:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dr Frank 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I just came off the pill after 4 years because of all the side effects. I knewa few women who got pregnant while using the patch, so i don't suggest them, especially if you got a little extra meat on your bones. For the past two months I have been using a product called Ensure, it looks kind of like a suppository but its the spermicide they put in condoms. I found it in Wal-Mart next to the condoms. No side effects to mention, very affordable!
2007-06-06 05:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only type of contraceptive that is free of side effects is a condom. I have been using them for over 8 years and have noever gotten pregnant and haven't gotten any STD's. Even if you are on the pill or patch, you need a condom to protect you from diseases.
2007-06-06 05:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ive been on the pill injection. It is very effective and aswell as being a contraceptive, it stops your periods which is ace!! I was on it for four years and it was great!! You have the jab once every 12 weeks and thats it. Have a word with your nurse or doctor. You are only meant to use the injection upto two years but dependant upon on your doctors advice.
2007-06-06 05:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by Louiseh.... 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you havent mentioned if you are in a long term relationship at the moment or whether its a new partner that you might not know their history..condoms have to be the best as they are gonna protect you from diseases as well as pregnancy, they are up there at about 98% effectiveness like the pill. double your safety and have an implant in your arm, you can forget about them for a few years and you will still be covered.
2007-06-06 05:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by ADELE P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand your concern. Unfortunatly for you, I think depression as a side effect may be something you just have to deal with? It really is a pain and I totaly understand, I was at the doctors just today, but I think all you can do it be on the pill and use a condom, and work on not being depressed. Sounds silly, but I mean focus on that, because I dont think you can avoid the depression. Good luck and god bless.
2007-06-06 05:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by Borayda 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't know how old you are, but you can have a coil fitted they are supposed to be reliable, but you should still use a condom to protect against sexual transmitted diseases. But you should speak to your family planning clinic or doctor. as for the pill it does have side affects like weight etc. Whatever you do just remember to be careful.
2007-06-06 05:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by sian j 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
CONDOM CONDOM it is the best the safest it is the only 1 that can protect you from STI if you have 1 sexual partner that you trust then you should see your obstetrician or gynecologist who will help you choose the right method for you.
2007-06-06 05:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by dip Girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it may be tricky at first and can sometimes spoil the moment having to go and put it in but have you thought about using the diaphragm and spermicide as well as making the man wear a condom. i think this would make you very protected. speak to your doctor though as he/she may have a better idea.
2007-06-06 06:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by jennifer f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋