be loved by someone even though the only reason they love you at all is because they feel like they have to love you or not be loved by them at all??
2007-06-06 05:32:50 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I don't have an answer to this right now....I am trying to decide for real.
2007-06-06 06:17:07 · update #1
not be loved by them at all; what good is someone who feels they *have* to love you? No love is better than false love. ♥
2007-06-06 05:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by Enchanted 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a Question that deserves a MILLIOM STARS...
It cannot be simply replied to with this or that...
Actually......... it is like a sword with a Two Side Blades
It can help u...............JUST AS WELL AS...... it could hurt u....
If you have tasted the true meaning of love (Spiritual & physical) where u were getting it from someone u would have loved to love, but circumstances were not just quite right for u both.....THEN u may wish to at least feel like wanting to be LOVED by that guy, who could be filling such a gap in your life; doing it to your liking & anticipation more than you would have liked it from others ... where he can demonstrate to you by all means what it takes to be suitably loved spiritually and / or physically....it doesn't matter any longer...since it is made in a PERFECT HARMONY STYLE BETWEEN THE TWO OF U...
So, you may wish to go for a try here...
But if you happen to be that FRAGILE of a PERSON, who is sooooooooooooooo sensetive & indecisive in life...and mostly will be hurt out of a love relation or affair, and who SIMULTANEOUSLY could not actually resist that guy's charm & cutness; forgetting about prevailing difficulties between the Two of you & forgetting all it took u to build your current life the way y wished at all times till it reached the way it did, THEN u might as well RE-CONSIDER and think it over & over till u get to the point that YOU ARE ACTUALLY DECIDING WHAT'S BEST FOR BOTH U & HIM....
But you better involve him in this whole process FOR BOTH YOUR SAKES & CONVENIENCE in what needs be done next...
So u may wish or wish not to go for a try here my dear...
Best of luck...
2007-06-07 19:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not be loved at all. No matter how much I personally loved someone, if they only pretended to love me it would be a false relationship and neither of us could be happy in that. If I truly loved them, I hope I would have the strength to accept the fact that they can't sincerely love me and realize I have to let them go, so they could try and find true love and happiness in their own life.
2007-06-06 05:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by Adelaide 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the day.
Sometimes, when I am really trying to prove myself to someone I care about I would take their love in any form...just to know it is there.
But then I think about it, and I know that I am worth more than being loved just because someone feels like they HAVE to love me. There would be no real feeling in it.
I guess, I would rather just not be loved by them at all...
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2007-06-06 12:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by Seduce A Stranger :] 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've actually never thought of this but if I had to answer right now, I'd have to say not. I think it is more special and beautiful when the person loves you for you and not b/c they feel they have to.
2007-06-06 12:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by Caribbean Belle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't love someone because you feel you have to, it's impossible,you can say you do but that's a different thing to actually loving them.
2007-06-06 05:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not be loved at all. Being loved is a precious, special gift - not some lifelong task or pretended obligation. That is not real love, just a sad deception...
2007-06-06 22:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by Answer-Me-This 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not be loved at all. Chances are if they feel like they have to love you they wont end up loving you for long.
2007-06-06 05:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by Kelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not be loved by them at all.
2007-06-06 05:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by Allgeier 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not to be loved at all. Y would someone want to be loved cuz thier forcing someone? I would rather know that I love myself than have somone love me for that reason.
2007-06-06 05:37:19 · answer #10 · answered by Joy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋