Tips on how to last long during intercourse?And to get a harder erection...?

Question

Alright, I am a 17 year old guy dating an 18 year old girl. We were both virgins until about 2 weeks ago when we both lost it to each other. It was really good for a first time. We have been trying new positions over the past few days and there are some where I just can't hold back they are just so hot and I have to ejaculate. Are there any tips that you can give me that can help me be longer lasting. I'm sure it's because we are new at this too and it will take practice but any help helps. Also, there are times that my erection gets to it's full length but won't be fully hard. Also, there are times where I will get hard but it won't last and will get soft really fast. We are using ultra sensitve condoms and Idglide Lube which has helped in sensation but I'm sure there are tips out there. Thanks a bunch to all for your help.

Answer 1

There are de-sensitizing lubrication you can buy. It will take some of the sensitivity away and therefore last a longer time. You put it on your penis before putting the condom on. Hope that helps.

Best of luck!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

First of all, ignore anyone that gives you the dumb advice of "desensitizing" creams, lotions, whatever. That's is totally counter-productive. Numbness does not equate good sex.

When you get to the point and you don't want it to be over yet, then pull out and do something else, use your mouth or fingers to keep her stimulated. Now, you'll only get away with this a couple of times a session before she wonders what's going on, but then again, if you know what you're doing, she won't care what your using.

Another tip. BREATHE. The easiest way to prevent yourself from coming too soon is to control your breathing. Be mindful of not holding your breath, in fact take big deep breaths when you feel yourself getting close. That's what I do and it seems to work the majority of the time.

Answer 4

Ok, you are obviously an intelligent kid (mind you I am saying Kid because you are only 17 and shouldn't be having sex at all but I am guessing you will be 18 soon) who is smart enough to use protection. If you are having sex often, then you may not get as erect as other times, because of the frequency. As far as "lasting longer"...hon you are 17. You won't "last longer" until your body becomes used to "lasting" at all. If you are worried about your girlfriend getting enough pleasure, there are alternate methods of pleasuring a person. It's not just enough to get into the elevator dear, eventually you have to go down :) I won't even advise you to abstain, because we both know you wouldn't do that.

Answer 5

You know that has to come with practice. Some never achieve that talent. I guess first of all don't be so anxious. As a woman I can tell you we have to be relaxed and comfortable or we don't enjoy it either. If you are not comfortable and relaxed she will definitely notice. It should be like any other activity you enjoy together. It's about each other not just the word SEX...it's a mental connection, that is unless your one of those "HORN DOGS" that only care about yourself and just get your's and not finish the job! It is something you have to work on, it would be nice to figure out things together, what each other like but to do that you have to be open and not embarrassed. Not all woman are the same and all have different likes and wants. So don't assume there is just one way.

Answer 6

Comfort level, thats what it comes down to. There are also condoms called DUREX proformax good condom, Also try the squeeze method, when you are about to ejaculate squeeze your penis (close to your nuts) and hold for a few seconds, that will stop the feeling and then do penetration again you can do that over and over until you want to ejac.

Answer 7

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Add in a healthy dose of exercise at least three times per week, and you’re well on your way to better sexual health!

Answer 8

learn some Tantric Sex Techniques, free from most libraries, the book that is.

learn some breathing techniques.

learn some kama sutra techniques.

learn some kegel exercises.

use a c0ckstrap

use a desentizing lotion

Answer 9

Its really just a comfort level. Try to enjoy sex, but not literally get "overcome" with emotion. The more you do it, including self-gratification, the greater a comfort level you will have with it. Trust me, you are going to get to a time where it will be difficult to. It really is all in the mind.

Answer 10

At the moment you are experimenting:that goes along with being over exited.
Hence you come to soon.
Masturbate before having sex:it will definitely last way longer then.
Sky.