Okay, so I really like this guy, and the night before we got out of school I kept thinking that that would be the last time I'd see him for 3 months, so I wrote him a pretty lengthy love letter telling him that I wanted him to know that I loved him, but then I really cared about our friendship more, because I knew he would never like me and we were best friends anyways. Well I also told him to call me if he still just wanted to be friends. I acted normal around him all that day, and at the last second I saw him, I slipped the letter into his hand, smiled, and walked away. That was it. I told another friend that I did it, and she was worried because he didnt call so she caled him and he said we were still friends, but he never called. It has been over two weeks, but he never called, so what does it mean? Should I try to forget about being friends with hm???I needansers from everyone... PLZ>>>> I NEED HELP!>!>!>!>!>!
2007-06-06 04:31:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think maybe he does not know what to make of it. If I were you, I would call him and ask him what he thought about the letter. this will bring you peace of mind. dont be afraid...you need to finish what you started. Another thing, stop getting your friends involved...you will soon learn that its better to deal directly with the source than have middle men involved. That can hurt the chances of you having something good with this boy. Just call him, have a casual conversation, try to feel the vibe, ask him what he thougth and be prepared to get an answer. This way, you will get an answer and decide whats next whether it is to move fwd w/him or alone. Good luck. and stop stressing. bye.
2007-06-06 05:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by priceless_beauty69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now not very usually. my dad used to inform me everyday. (however he is lifeless). my mother tells me. my sister tells me. once in a while different loved ones individuals do ........ or a freind does, however that sort of affection is distinctive than romantic love. And even in that cirumstance, i have now not heard it usually. I am now not instructed "I love you" very usually. I am now not instructed "I respect you" or "Thank You" very usually both. Hugs are not typical both. And regardless that i am the sort of individual of whom is moderately cozy and that i do not have got to pay attention it everyday, each as soon as in a even as it's pleasant to grasp that i'm cared approximately and liked. But I consider the word turns into usual after a even as and loses it is that means if used TOO a lot or within the improper context. Like while i man performs the "I love you" card simply to get you to do him OR a buddy or loved ones member performs the "I love you" card simply considering they desire anything from you. Not each person is like that, however a few are. And the word does lose it is credibility and that means after a even as of getting used improperly in such occasions. I attempt to allow the folks in my existence recognize that i care approximately them usually. I consistently say "Love You!" or "I Love You!" however that is simply considering that is the best way that i'm. I've consistently been like that. I like folks to grasp that they're cherished and cared approximately. And that it's actual, as i assume not anything in go back. I am sorry you might have had such terrible occasions. I recognize the sensation, feel me. I can present you a hug! ---> ?hugs!!? And i am hoping it will get bigger. Just considering SOME folks for your existence have dealt with you favor crap does not imply that you're. You deserve as a lot love and recognize as the following individual. Don't accept lower than the high-quality. LOVE YOU!!? ?????
2016-09-05 23:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by vandeventer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, you told him in the letter too contact you only if he wanted to still be just friends, sounds to me like he likes you too.
2007-06-06 04:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes those friends are the ones that really are in love with you, thats how I found my man. He was my best friend and then I found out he was in love with me. we are a couple now, and I am so happy..hope everything works out for you...
2007-06-06 04:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mee~mOe~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be shocked, because you dont fall in love with someone you arent dating.. and he probably realizes this.. wait for him to contact you.
2007-06-06 04:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by mommy to be 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋