is this symptoms of pregnancy???? please i need help!!!?

Question

its like this......its my first time having sex with my boyfriend..and we didnt use condoms..sorry because im sooo paranoid in that sex things...but his sperm did not come inside me..after we do that sex thing..it bleeds,,then my abdomen starts to hurt..but after 2 days no bleeding occurs..in the morning..when i wake up,,my head feels like bursting..and 5 days past seens we had sex..my abdomen still hurts..please help!! im soo scared..i always think about what happen..! i regret it alot..i dont want to be pregnant..!! and if my parents know about this...for sure they will kill me..! please i need help....is this symptoms of pregnancy or its just normal when its your first time having sex..? what will i do!! please i need help!!

Answer 1

well first of all when is your period due? If you are late then start worrying about pregnancy. Or just take a pregnancy test 2 days before you are due. You sound like you are so paranoid that you have made yourself sick (and maybe thats why you have the stomach pains). Don't overthink it, girl. You can't do anything right now until you have missed your period.

Answer 2

Every time you have unprotected sex, even when the male does not ejaculate inside you, you can become pregnant. Pregnancy symptoms will only start showing later in pregnancy and the first sign is a missed period.
I suggest you wait for your next cycle, if you miss it I suggest you take a pregnancy test. But also remember that stress can also delay your period.

Next time be more careful, and if something like that happens again get the morning after pill, but remember to get it within 72 hours from having sex....

Birth control might be a good idea and always use condoms not just to prevent pregnancy but also preventing HIV ans STD

Answer 3

It sounds to me that you're just in pain from your first time having sex with someone who used a little more force than was neccesary for someone with no sexual experience. It's normal to bleed a little after losing your virginity, and as for the headaches and your abdomen still hurting days later, I think you're just experiencing symptoms of stress and anxiety. Try and relax and stop worrying. You had sex, there's nothing you can do to change that, but use this as a learning experience for the future...maybe you aren't as ready to be sexually active as you thought you were. Responsible sexually active people use protection from diseases and pregnancy. If you want to do big girl things, you need to act like a big girl.

Answer 4

You might or won't get implantation bleeding (I did not with any of my pregnancies - 3mc, one million are living). If your interval is past due, or the indications you are feeling are special to the way you in general consider earlier than a interval, see your physician. If you're pregnant, and the affliction you felt is offcenter, it is viable you could have an ectopic being pregnant, that's implantation of the embryo external the uterus - essentially the most typical being tubal, or implantation within the fallopian tube. (that is viable despite the fact that you do not consider affliction to 1 facet, or if all of it feels usual) If the being pregnant is ectopic, it is very main to get remedy asap, as leaving it may possibly effect in rupture of the tube, and different headaches. I could do a house being pregnant experiment, then see a physician to verify that the whole lot's correctly in case your interval does not begin inside a couple of days or so of being due, relying on how consistent it in general is.

Answer 5

You should always use protection, not just to prevent pregnancy but to prevent sexually transmitted diseases. Withdrawal is not a safe way to prevent pregnancy as many woman could tell you. Your best bet is to take a pregnancy test. and if it is negative be much more careful in future. Your headache is probably due to your worrying. so either get the test or wait until your next period is due.If you get your period, be thankful and do not have any more unprotected sex.

Answer 6

If his sperm didn't go inside you, you probably aren't pregnant... but since you didn't use a condom how could you know that no sperm got in?
Bleeding and pain after the first time is normal. And I know you won't want to hear it, but it doesn't sound to me like you're emotionally ready for sex.

Answer 7

It sounds like you had tearing from the penis' penetration of the hymen and vagina. I suggest taking a pregnancy test in a couple of weeks. It is too soon to determine if you are pregnant because the hormone from implantation will not be present in your urine. FIRST- make an appt to see an ob/gyn. Best of luck to you. You sound very young. Sex is best when your mental maturity has caught up with your physical maturity.

Answer 8

probably just a result of your first time having sex. The tissue in there is really sensitive and any type of penetration, especially if it was pretty rough sex, will tear some of the tissue. Next time use protection so you don't have to worry, and start taking birth control pills.

Answer 9

OMG, how old are you to begin with......and unprotected sex....wow

Yes you will bleed after having sex for the first time, and yes it will hurt. But guess what, he doesnt have to "do anything inside" for you to get pregnant. If he does it anywhere near your vagina you CAN GET PREGNANT. Sounds to me like you need to get on birth control, and talk to your parents.

Answer 10

you will become pregnant or get a disease, possibly fatal if you continue to be alone with this or any other boy. Please stop! Why you are having these pains, I am not sure, but you should see a doctor.