For straight people...?

Question

when you criticize a gay person's act, when they do something wrong, you conclude that all gays are like that??? I mean if a gay do this, you conclude that it's every gay's fault and every gay is like that!!! So Unfair!!!! If a straight raped someone, does all straight a rapist then????

sorry, guys, you must have been misunderstand me. I am not referring to ALL straight, but to those Narrow-minded ones (I haven't cleared that in my question and I am sorry for that.) My point is like for example, when a gay comes out to a straight person and this person gives warning to the gay, this is the usual thing they will describe to a gay:

1.) disgusting
2.) will steal to sustain his BF
3.) lustful
4.) evil (why?)

I mean if there were gays who do this, I am sure not EVERY gay is like this. But people, when they hear gay, this characteristics are the things that comes in their mind and that is what I am saying right now?? WHY do (some) straight people generalize that all gays are like these???

Answer 1

I understand your point. I have a gay brother and i am the first person he approached to let out that he is gay. I was more disappointed than surprised ( mainly because by brother is so good looking). Gathering myself, I talked to him as a friend rather than as a sister. I told him that "this persona that you have will bring you a huge difficulty particularly on boyfriend-boyfriend relationship and difficulty on how the world will see you so be prepared and be strong, always pray for guidance".

Hypocritical as the world and the people in it may seem / be, these matter has to be faced and dealt with your entire life because not all understands, not all can give you respect on what and who you may be.

Unfortunate as it is, this is the fact and it is sad that you and your gender will have to face this your entire life; because no matter what you do; prove them wrong, excel in something, discover the cure for aids, cancer whatever, most and I mean "not some" people will still dont understand or wont understand. Yes it is sad, but that's the reality.

However, there is hope that only time and fate can realize. In our own ways, people like me educate people like them that people like you are also human. Whatever makes you happy as long as it doesnt do harm to you and people around, do it. The world shouldnt give a damn.

your question/statement is like a question of religion (more like: if there is a muslim terrrorisr : all muslims are terrorist) and its a no-brainer that the answer is simply understanding, education, respect, acceptance and love. easy to say but hard to do... and hard to come by.

Well, life is really unfair and its like that not only to you but to all. I would suggest for you to be more understanding on people who dont or wont do the same for you however frustrating it may be. You know what?: People like you get to feel and see life at its fullest, its highest and its lowest. So, cheer up and party girl!

now, as far as raping is concerned, i believe that is indeeed far off. You see, once you're a part of a certain group or society, you have a duty, obligation, responsibility to maintain
because what you do affects the group/society ( now, this is a shallow perspective but it is a reality). Righteously speaking, 1 person should not be blamed for the actions of another whether or not they belong in the same group, gender, religion, race ect, whatever because each of us has our own individuality, each of us has the rights (it may not be absolute) to be who we are and to be what we want to be in line with God's will.

Answer 2

Calm down.People have just begun to accept Gays and lesbians as sexual deviants and not sick ,abnormal or criminals. IIn some countries,homosexuality is still a crime or an offense.Social changes of such nature take long time,may be 2-3,generations to get acceptance.Therefore,Gays would do well to try and live their life in such a way that others find it easier to think of them as about other members of the society.Confrontation by a minority has a historical record of failure and attendant misery So once again,Cool down and show patience ,tact and farsight.Wish you well.

Answer 3

It's not straight people in general that feel like this. I know several gay people that have that feeling about straight people also. So, it's basically on a person to person basis. If you're gay, you should know better than to stereotype a whole group of people like this.

Answer 4

As a straight person, I do not criticize gay people at all. You are melding us altogether just as you do not want to be. I love gay people. Some of my best friends have been gay. I wish that life wasn't so difficult for you. Oh, and the real problem is religion. Religion is what makes gay behavior bad. Oh, and Fox "News". Just one person's thoughts.

Answer 5

You have a tunnel vision and are very ready to take umbrage at anything a straight does we do not mind that you and your kind have a different way of living to us so there is no need to be so critical ~~

Answer 6

Well if I criticize a gay person for having gay sex.. I'm pretty sure that it follows that all gay people are having gay sex.. they wouldn;t be gay otherwise would they? I'm not aware of any "gay" crimes like robbery, assault, what have you.

Answer 7

Aren't you doing EXACTLY what you are angry at "all" straight people for? you can't take what a few people do and lump all others into that group - You realize that this question makes you look very hypocritical?

Answer 8

I do not judge nor do I generalize. I take each person as they are and make no assumptions on the next.

Answer 9

So following that logic.... All straight people are thieves, murders and adulterers and the list goes on........

Answer 10

Idiots like that just like to stereotype...F'n morons