im a guy and have a gay friend...i dont know whether i like him or not...but he likes me and whenever he gets a chance he tries to touch my private parts...now he has helped me alot to sought out a problem which was troubling me a lot..and now he wants me to strip naked once infront of him and give him about an hour to do anything he wants to do with my body...should i do it???remember he has really helped me alot...
2007-06-06 01:41:50 · 27 answers · asked by luvguysngals 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
That's a little creepy to me... I would never ask any of my straight friends to get naked in front of me and let me do whatever I want to them for an hour. No matter how much they helped me... Heck if any of my gay friends said that to me, I'd tell them to keep fantasizing, cause it's not happening.
If you have interest in him or want to have sex with him go ahead. But I think it shows that your friend has motives for helping you out as much as he has. However if you want to let him do whatever, feel free. I don't think I could let someone do that to me, I would feel like a piece of meat then, or like a toy for his pleasure...
Good luck!
2007-06-06 02:06:42 · answer #1 · answered by Jyse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is up to you. How do you feel? Just because he helped you, it doesn't mean you should strip naked. I think you can find some other way to show your appreciation. Once again, this is completely your choice. It sounds like you may like him. Also, if you really don't feel comfortable with the stuff that he does or says, then you should let him know.
2007-06-06 08:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it makes you uncomfortable than he is not a friend to ask you that, and he is first of all not respecting your body at all with all this touching your private parts. No matter if he helped you but there is many ways of repaying your friends. and if you think about this he planned this, that he will help you and basically use you,
and if you respect your body you should not allow him to touch your private parts. What if he uses you for that hour and if you need his help again than the same thing is gone happen, are you selling your body to him. my opinion he is not a friend. so repay him in other ways but what you want to do is just selling yourself.
so think long and hard this is your dignity and pride is any friend that asks you that worth it.!!!!
2007-06-06 09:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by bedroomeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why not? if u like him then go for it..unless your not comfortable with it then tell him your not ready but let him know the thought is definately on thoughts as you marinate it over and over in your mind so he will leave u alone for awhile..and to be patient with you to think this through..you can owe someone gratitude but when it borders over self degredation DO NOT put yourself in that position..you are human to feel you need to pay back what you owe but nothing is worth putting yourself through any kind of inhumane act like stripping for someone for his pleasure alone..unless you are a willing participant and if u are then go for it..if no then really think about what ur nex move will be..good luck~
2007-06-06 09:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by Charmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly do not know what he has helped you with to warrant such a "strip tease". If you think he has braved swords and bullets for you and giving him physical gratification does make you feel that you have pay back your debt, then it does justify that hour. But do remember that it's still your choice and you make also make it clear to him that it's a one time time.
ps: so now i have helped you, will you strip for me? ;)
2007-06-06 09:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by sketchsangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Help is irrelevant. Friends help friends.
The question is, do you want to have sex with him?
If yes, then do it...with reasonable precautions like condoms and rules....
If not, then tell him friends don't pay friends for help, helping friends is part of friendship, giving up the booty is not.
2007-06-06 08:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bake him some cookies or something. That would show your appreciation without any tarnish on your virtue. Unless your horny. Then I say do a slow striptease and f*ck his brains out! lol
2007-06-06 10:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by Patrick S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are more than willing to get naked, but you are just waiting for the sores and rash and stuff to clear up first.
2007-06-06 09:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by invisable_id 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this comment is on behalf of your friend...I would say...do it you have nothing to lose and nothing to grain wait maybe self respect but other then that trust me it could be somewhat fun..I guess
Thinking on behalf of you I would say dont do it seeing that a really true friend wouldnt asked you to do such things no matter what kinda of help he has given you it wouldnt give me that right to ask for something in return....a friend helps just to help not to ask for anything in return!!!
2007-06-06 09:26:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it it would be great. sounds like he really likmes you and if you give him the chance he might just rock your world. You don't sound like you have anything to lose. Who knows you just might like it a lot.
good luck go for it
2007-06-06 09:26:34 · answer #10 · answered by kay b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋