okay well i just moved to a new state almost a year ago. When i 1st moved here i met this guy. This guy is 11 yrs older than i am, im 16. This guy and i have done things but not 2 an extreme (like kiss and stuff). Ive become OBSESSED with him .. we talk on the phone and he's always there. He works for the county jail and whatnot & he has a career. The problem is.. hes moving out in the beginning of july. When i mean moving out .. I mean that he lives with his parents across the st. and hes moving out of his house 2 live with his friend. I really have no one 2 talk 2 1ce he leaves. Im gona be devestated and heartbroken. WHen im with my boyfriend this guy is all i think about .. its really bad. Every1 says 2 just give up and not talk 2 him but i cant do that. I think i love him but he loves another girl .. he even told me he loves her and it just brings me down .. what do i do considering im literally obsessed and that hes moving out?
2007-06-04 19:19:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He may work in the county jail, but soon he could become a permanent resident if he continues with you. Consider the rammifications of your choices before you make them.
2007-06-04 19:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, he is someone you need to get over real quick.... First of all, he's too old for you, your young and you don't need no old man. Second of all, he's 27 and he's still living with his mama.... girl that is a no no, who would want to be with someone like that. Third of all, you have a boyfriend.... why you gonna do yo man like that. You should be consentrating on him or leave him. Fourth of all.... if he doesn't love you and he loves some other girl, that should be a turn off.... He's not interested move on. Trust ne it's no worth it.
2007-06-05 02:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by Puddin' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man of that age should not be kissing or anything else with a 16 year old girl. You need to separate yourself from him. Move on. You are too young to be obsessed with a man his age. He has someone else. Be mature about it and wish him luck in his new place.
2007-06-05 02:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is weird for even messing with you. God girl, open your eyes. This is a blessing. That dude has nothing to offer you but misery. He belongs in jail.
2007-06-05 02:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by Rudy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to move out from him, stop speaking with him
2007-06-05 02:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by puppy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋