I'm usually nice to everyone, but aparently to some people nice gives them a license to ask me out on the first meeting ever.
Is that the way things roll or am I just unfortunate to attract old men
Believe me their attention is undesired. I hate to be rude or mean to anyone.
Help. I have consider a breast reduction so they don't look at me like . . . Got Milk?
2007-06-04 17:21:29 · 12 answers · asked by 5324 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
More than likely, young lady, you are the mature type that dresses decently, unlike the guess of the second respondent who said you might be asking for it. Yes, some men go for hoochies, but for the most part older men might like you because your inner beauty comes through and in that case you don't have to dress provocatively to attract them. Just being your mature self attracts older men like bees to honey.
Either case, be bold and tell those men: thanks, but I'm not interested.
2007-06-04 18:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's right or wrong, but it's more, shall we say, challenging. I have nothing against Asian men, but unless you want a life based on some version of strict Sharia law, I would avoid - at all costs - anyone Islamic. Sorry if that offends anyone: maybe you haven't seen the videos of 9/11 or 7/7.
2016-04-01 02:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mens eye for beauty does not change with age looks or disposition. People that deal with with this fact do so like any other unwanted advances -- with politeness and grace. It may be true that a reduction or a mastectomy may make you less noticeable, also being less friendly. You could also hide your head under a rock, as no one would miss you as much as you would ! Or just get a grip on your Hubris.
2007-06-04 17:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by crapemyrtleguy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? I was a freaking perv magnet when I was 15-19. When I hit my 20's the grandpas mostly stopped hitting on my, but guys old enough to be my father still do. I usually just say no thank you and walk away quickly. If that doesn't work tell them, "Sorry, I don't have daddy issues" it makes them run away!
2007-06-04 17:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by el3_kisses 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are too funny. It's the best that's happened today.
Pay those old farts no attention. They hit on everyone. It's a probability issue. The more gals they hit on the more likely they are to hit pay dirt.
They also think they're god's gift to women. I'm not sure why they think that but they do.
2007-06-04 17:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is really something and men just seem to know who are the vulunerable ones. The way you look or dress is what mostly do the attraction.
2007-06-04 17:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had this problem in my life before and still. I know you are probably a very nice lady, but men do not think that. They think, "If she is talking to me, SHE WANTS ME." You have to be very upfront and abrupt with a man -- "I'm sorry. I do not want to carry on this conversation with you." Don't let them into your space unless they are invited. And old men will try to get whatever attention they can, so they are very tenacious.
2007-06-04 17:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by tiva 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Attracting their attention isn't the problem. The problem is that you aren't comfortable declining gracefully. I suggest you learn how to do so. Guys don't cut off their nuts when they reach thirty.
2007-06-04 17:29:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. who gives them a license to ask you out. who decides to accept. if you are afraid of being rude to them then you enjoy being rude to yourself, get my point. so cut the crap, forget about getting brease reduction, spend the money on a spa or something.
2007-06-05 04:33:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I'm not the only one! I can't wait to see what the answers are.
2007-06-04 17:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by brownieleslie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋