2007-06-04 15:54:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
tell him that there is a time (not at school) and a place (his own room) for that.
2007-06-04 15:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by beb 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Without knowing more about your grandson and his past, or about his personality, it's really hard to say.
It could be a behavioral issue of acting out, so to speak, but if that doesn't sound like your grandson, perhaps he was just bored.
I know how absurd that sounds, but he's around that age (if he's in the middle of puberty) where he's going to want to be doing that.
It also depends on whether it was blatantly visible when he was caught. Was he doing it out in the open, with it out of his pants, or was he just touching himself.
Truth be told, if your grandson doesn't have much of a behavioral problem (currently or in the past), or hasn't had much trauma in his life, I wouldn't worry too much about it, just tell him there are other outlets and places that can be done.
I'm sure this will be an awkward conversation, but hey, its better than ignoring him. Psychologically speaking, it may be his way of "speaking out" looking for attention if he has behavioral issues.
Best of luck.
2007-06-04 22:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by Minnesota Nice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you some kind of pervert? You just posted a question saying you were 13 and you were looking at little boys in math class, now you have a grandson?
2007-06-04 23:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he was exposing himself, you might have a real problem there. Needs evaluation by a shrink. If he just got caught while trying not to get caught, he needs to learn some element of discretion.
2007-06-04 23:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by XOUT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you mean you were caught masturbating in class. You're weird and sick. Who masturbates in class? I bet everyone was laughing at you? You sicko.
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2007-06-07 21:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by B20Mac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is he's probably humiliated enough to have learned his lesson. However if this isn't his first stunt then I would consider having him see a counselor. Sixteen year olds are so self conscious it seems very strange he'd behave this way in public.
2007-06-04 22:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by Sara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your grandson that he shouldn't have gotten caught and you're surprised that it was masterbation instead of having sex with his girlfriend. You'll be a cool grandpa then. lmao
2007-06-05 18:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by JT Jawbreaker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with him and tell him to do it in priviate. ANd why was he masturbating in class the first place?
2007-06-04 23:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by Pauly W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly, its perfectly normal, though obviously not in a public place.
im presuming the lad is very embarrassed, and unlikely to repeat what he did in class, but a 'quiet word' to point him in the direction of the bathroom/shower or locked bedroom, when he wants to do it in future.
2007-06-05 09:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by tom_blaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, "Good job". This country thinks that everything is so taboo. So what if he got a little horny in class? It happens. We're human. Animals hump each other in public.
2007-06-04 23:40:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him is normal to masturbate, but not in school
and if he did it public he could go to jail for it
2007-06-04 22:59:38 · answer #11 · answered by xjoizey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋