Im in love with someone im never gonna see again....shes a wonderful person, thoughtful, bright, hardworking, friendly, happy...this is the person i want to grow with. how can i move on, knowing such a person exists..i feel like i cant love anyone else now....
heres the story: (sori too long)
when i think of her, i feel respect and caring. before she left for good, we hugged, and i felt her try to hold me tight. she avoided eye contact after that and closed the door behin without looking back. she doesnt know about how i feel..maybe does have an idea...anyway, its wrong to act on my feelings since shes married (no kids tho). anyway, thats when i realized that my crush was deeper..my feelings were real, and for days now, i feel wanting her to come back with my heart..but i wont see her again. But I thank God to share that moment with her....i think it would be hard for me to fall in love again, after meeting someone like her...i feel like shes the right person just in a wrong time..
2007-06-04 15:44:05 · 5 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i cant forget the way she hugged me....i keep thinking about it wherever i am..
2007-06-04 15:44:46 · update #1
i know the feeling-you need to try to let her go-if you want to talk about it send me an emaill and i'll tell you what i went thru and see if i can help you
2007-06-04 15:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by Samurai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh, ain't love grand? You are suffering from what is called separation anxiety or in your case love sickness. I don't know how you came to be so close to her at least emotionally and with her being married I'm surprised she let you. At any rate wisdom comes from experiencing a lot of failures. In my opinion you are acting wisely not to pursue these feelings with her. The husband might take exception and that could lead to a world of hurt.
Let me see, the last time I stopped counting there were about 6 billion people in the world. About half of them are women - 3 billion. And about half of these would be eligible -
that's about 1 1/2 billion. Take off the half billion and you still have a sizable number of girls who would meet your very cultivated tastes. I know it hurts like hell but get out there meeting others and learn something from this experience. You can and very likely will love again. Don't be in a hurry and don't hurt others because you were hurt. Not manly you know. All the best, happy hunting.
2007-06-04 16:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by kenn32002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. Sometimes you meet people that have such a large impact on you that you don't want to let go. You don't have to. Keep in touch no matter where she's going. There's someone out there for you. It might not be her, and it hurts, but one day you are going to meet someone so wonderful and know she is the right person.
2007-06-04 15:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by Alex H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now you may think that there is no one like her, but let me tell you that you are wrong, especially since you have fallen in love with your image of her. So far you have been allowed to idealize her, but people are real people, not ideals. Someone is out there for you. Give it time, let go, because when you do you will open yourself to the other possibilities. Remember, other people have lived through variations of this same story, and now lead happy lives.
2007-06-04 15:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by cavassi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy a dog and goto anger management and aa. even if your not angry and you dont drink, there are other bigger problems in the world than just one chick. either grow up and be a man, or buy a waterproof diary for all the tears that will be falling on it. or just rent american psyco and enjoy the movie, later, slick
2007-06-04 15:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by ralph p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋