Okay so my oldest brother got his girlfriend pregnant and they are both 20....and we r Catholic...his gf is coming to live in our basement since they cant afford anything, is there anything i can do to help her? i dont have any sisters so do you think her and i will become close? this is a huge deal for me and i really need help, its hard and there are so many things that i feel i cant do but WANT to if you've had an ixperience GREAT but if not i could still use your help.....
btw shes due in november
2007-06-04 15:41:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I've had two babies, and I would have been stoked to have someone that was home a bit to watch movies with. Cook her nice lunches (anything is nice if someone else's makes it) and bring her home Chocolate!! In Australia we have Tim Tam's and they are the greatest biscuit ever, I ate so many during my 2 pregnancies that we had to put their cost into our budget to make sure we could afford it!!! :)
2007-06-04 17:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by hey mickey you're so fine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this depends on how old you are, if you are 10-15 then she may find you a little annoying. But if you are in the 16-19 range she just might like the company when shes down there alone. I am a little further on than your brother girlfriend, but I do know that Us pegnant ladies get very emotional, and it just gets worse if we are alone. So let her know that you are the to talk to, or just sit and whatch TV with. I can almost guarantee that she will welcome the company. And who knows, naybe you two will get close. After all you are the aunt of her unborn child.
2007-06-04 22:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your brother and her have been together for a while, and you'll be related to this child, you should try to build a relationship with her... it could be a good thing for the both of you, and if you don't have a sister, you could learn first hand from her "mistakes". Since they can't afford anything, I don't think you should help with this. They both are old enough to know the consequences of sex, and it's not your part to financially help them.
2007-06-04 22:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by uhd0rableo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first of all don't say your brother "got her pregnant". She's as responsible as him. offer to help her out, she will likely be sick for a while, and then she will get big and tired. Offfer her companionship but respect her privacy too. I hope you can develop a good friendship, since you will be the Aunt of her baby!
2007-06-04 22:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by parental unit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her. Let her know that you would like to help her out any way you can. Sometimes, just being there to lend an ear is what first time moms-to-be need.
2007-06-08 19:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋