i miss my b/f terribly!!! we broke up yesterday! =(
he has hurt me alot emtionally, he has put me through alot, but i still love him! what should i do???
i don't think i can go on without him...
2007-06-04 13:22:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
If he mistreats you, then DON'T GET BACK WITH HIM, but if you guys just broke up over something dumb, and you REALLY love and miss each other, then WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? GET BACK TOGETHER!! =)
2007-06-04 13:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by Georgia Rose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh I'm the same as you. I went thru a lot with my ex he has hurt me a whole bunch too and has put me thru a lot also. Funny enough I do miss also, however, I'm trying really really hard to just move on. In the long run It will be better for me and I will be happy that I didn't talk back to him. You can go on without him. I know how you feel tho... believe me I've been there I know, but you have to do without him. He treated you bad... don't go back to him. Just move on gracefully without him.
2007-06-05 00:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by Jamacaray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not good to be with someone who is emotionally abusive. Do you wanna live like that for the rest of your life? Do you really need him or are you just used to him being around? Is he making you feel guilty about breaking up or do you just feel guilty because you think that you may have abandoned him? You can love him and not be with him. Try being a really good friend instead, it's not like he went away forever. Just give yourself a few more days to calm down get your emotions in check before you make a final decision.
2007-06-04 20:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by Princess Leia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk to him let him know what is going on with you see if he is willing to change some of the things and alsodont say you cant go on without him if he is not willing to cooperate with you move on it will hurt at 1st but be strong get out change what you do there are other people out there 1 door closes another opens stop trying open the door that closed and find that open 1
good luck
2007-06-04 20:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by KARRIEM A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a man in your life isn't everything, have some fun with your friends, talk to someone about it, like your friends, and make the best out of it! i dont think thats true love if he has hurt u that much! u deserve a better man than that!
2007-06-04 20:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by Kenzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's going to put you through a lot, i don't think you should get back together with him. my bf put me through a lot and i broke up with him like 3 days ago (partially long distance matters) and it hurts like hell but i have a feeling you're feeling worse than i am. i feel like if he loves you he shouldn't put you through a lot and he should change. if he agrees to treat you how you should be treated and follows through with it, you should get back together with him. but i suggest you try to be strong and move on if you can.
2007-06-04 20:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by Lily123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only the two of you know for sure what your relationship is all about and whether or not it is worth salvaging.
2007-06-04 20:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good friends is the best option. That's were my ex and I are and we are finally happy!
2007-06-04 20:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by Vintage Glamour 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow a brighter path...there are more and better fish out there that will treat you better, and you will learn to love and appreciate him more.
2007-06-04 20:26:35 · answer #9 · answered by Tikled_Ivory 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow a backbone and stop letting people walk all over you just because you're lonely.
2007-06-04 20:25:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋