you are given something,
are complimented,
something is done for you,
someone says "I love you"
you are touched in a loving way
2007-06-04 13:09:16 · 17 answers · asked by someone 5 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
If someone touches me in a loving way. Compliments, gifts & words "can" be shallow. Second would be something done--something thoughtful that wasn't even asked for. I can FEEL sincere love from a touch.
2007-06-04 16:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by Psychic Cat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm moved to say all of the above, but I believe touch to be the most intimate, and in reverse order to the above I'd rank the ways love is expressed. It is important to say,"I love you" even when everything else is done, it seals and validates the action. Something done commits the lover in action, a compliment in words, and an article or gift in a material object. They are each precious, but being by the bedside of an elderly person or someone who was dying, I know the last and best expression to be tactile. I know, too, parents often give their children things, and those things can't take the place of a single compliment which builds the child's self esteem. I Know, too, many husbands who are quick to compliment their wives, but don't know how to do the simplest chores which would make life easier. You see what I mean by a hierarchy of love?
2007-06-04 20:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by Fr. Al 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1-Something is done for me
2-Say I love you
3-Touched in a loving way
4-Given something
5-Complimented
2007-06-04 20:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by birdie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
e -all of the above- but the more loved would be you are given something because that person thought about me and toke the time to hand pick out something to give to me that in their hearts it special to them that is the most love a person can give other
2007-06-04 20:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by freckles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I am touched in a loving way.
2007-06-04 20:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Joy 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I feel more loved when I'm touched in a loving way...something so simple as a touch can brighten my whole world...n make me feel as if I'm melting..dissolving...it's incredible.
This gives me an idea for a question! lolz.
2007-06-05 16:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by .. 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it depends on who it is from i think. from my boyfriend i feel most loved when he touches me in a loving way like grabbing my hand while walking down the sidewalk. but from my parents or friend i feel most loved when something nice and unexpected is done for me because it shows they were thinking of me.
2007-06-04 20:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by Haley 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel most loved when someone does an action to benefit me without me having to ask them to do this. Many times in my life my friends were there for me when my parents could not be and I cherish them so much for those times.....They cared for me and saw what I was going through and helped meget through whatever it was that I was having a problem with...........
2007-06-05 13:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by Rita 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
when i am touched in a loving way, like when people smile, or hug me, or just say something that blows me away.
2007-06-04 22:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by Me 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
probably choice # 4 or 5. it feels good whether it's my mom or somebody i like to hang out with tells me that I'm loved.
2007-06-04 20:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by Private_Cannoli 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋