i love him so much and cant forget him even though i know he is not mine
2007-06-04 12:59:39 · 13 answers · asked by olya 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
B/C you invest soo much into that person and it hurts to have your heart broken!
2007-06-04 13:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love itself is not painful. It's all the expectations that we as mere humans place upon love and when love does not return with his hands wide open, we are mindful of all that we have done or given and then evil and hatred, the twins, rear their ugly heads and push us over the limit. You see, love is pure, selfless, caring, not puffed up, does not wish any harm, does not act unbecoming, does not seek her own, believes in the truth, rejoices in all that is good, is kind, does not envy, bears all things, believes the best in everyone, and does not fail. If we began to learn what love really is about - even when there is a breakup, you would still love that person and wish him the best because if you really believe in love and this relationship was yours, you have not lost it. In time, it may return to you. If not, you have the experience now to learn to move on and love will come to you again.
2007-06-04 20:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an impossible question to answer. But from what i have found in life love only hurts you if you let it. Get up, stop feeling sorry for yourself and move on...it'll do you a lot of good. Tough words of love.
2007-06-04 20:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by Ambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats a problem i find myself, but love, proper love, is mostly a one way thing. i've found that out the hard way. she still thinks im joking, as i make jokes alot. but she just doesnt get me. just try to find one thing about him that annoys you, and use that as a reason to try to forget him, that is ofcourse if he is married or in a healthy relationship. or you could kill her and if the police find out it was you claim insanity and that you and him are ment to be together. its on CSI all the time. sorry for rambling.
2007-06-04 20:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's love.
You are having an infatuation I think.
True love develops with time. (With the exception of mothers love toward their infants)
2007-06-04 20:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. You are not in Love, you are infatuated.
2007-06-04 20:10:59 · answer #6 · answered by HerbalMix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if it wasn't painful, we couldn't appreciate the utter joy we feel when it's right.
2007-06-04 20:07:50 · answer #7 · answered by .izzie. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
part of human nature hun...sorry u just have to learn from it and try ur best to get true it as best as u possibly can..
2007-06-04 20:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will in time. losing a love hurts, heal yourself by loving who you are.
2007-06-04 20:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by taylor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is painful because you have to deal with having your heartbroken
2007-06-04 20:06:06 · answer #10 · answered by <3RomanticChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋