Whats wrong with me? Why do I pretty much hate all people except my friends and family? I am always cranky, and when I see other guys all I wanna do is fight them, and when I see other girls all I think about is how slutty and nasty they all are. I'm married, and I love my wife because she's not a nasty slut. I like my friends because I trust them and they are good people. But to me, other guys act like dumba**es and girls are just dirty whores. I have major trust issues with other people being around me. I pretty much can barely tolerate other people in this world. I often fantasize about living out in the middle of nowhere and not having contact with anyone but my friends n family for years on end. What's wrong with me?
2007-06-04 12:25:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
well perhaps you were not raised well
also I don't think anything is wrong
have you looked at todays society?
so many wars and stupid people
I do not blame you
I have once said that I would rather live on a mountain with all my trusted friends then have to live with selfish bozos.
2007-06-04 12:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Yuri ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is such a strong word. I would hope that you just have issues with people that you don't know. I can understand that. The world that we live in is not as friendly as it used to be. People lock their doors, and livle next door to people they don't even know, or will not take the time to get to know. Children are afraid to play in the streets for fear of kidnapping. People are afraid to work in certain places because they are always being held up. People steal from you, cheat you. I mean, the world is truly messed up. But, it is the people in the world who make the world. And when you have negative attitudes, you pass them on to others, especially children. Why don't you start one person at a time - just smile and speak. Then gradually engage in short conversations with someone you don't know. You might be in a grocery line - ask someone how their day was. give good feedback. I think that if you learn to open up a little more toward others, you will find that you don't really hate people afterall. Gunshy maybe and protective, but don't give up on everybody. You might meet me one day. I am a very friendly person and I might strike up a conversation with you. I would hope that you don't hate me before you get a chance to talk to me. We might have some great things in common! Afterall, we are both Yahoo Community Members. That's a start. There's nothing wrong with you. Good luck.
2007-06-04 19:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not alone at all, but... to the question:
Did any thing potentially traumatizing happen to you during your formative years? You might want to see a counselor of sorts, and make sure that you have no chemical imbalances, check your lifestyle, see if the way you live is making you unconsciously miserable. Try to be more patient with the people around you.
2007-06-04 19:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called anti social behavior disorder, and you should seek psychiatric help, Listen I'm not trying to be snarky with you here, alot of times I feel the same way, people are rude and nasty and just plain un trustworthy.
however, there are exceptions to every rule, try to stay focused on the people that you love and take it one day at a time, it will help you if you talk to trained professional...good luck to you.
2007-06-04 19:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by Angelbaby7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you actually hate yourself. From the kind of life that you have described, you have no reason to hate others. But if you do hate others the way you say, then why are you asking for OTHERS for advice? Because since you have openly asked for advice, you're receiving it from dumba**s and dirty whores (by your choice of words). I'm going to say that you hate yourself.
2007-06-04 19:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mastershake 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you don't respect what ever you hate... The best I've heard this year and I don't mean phyisicaly do them is but the contexts is from Lovemarks Sachi and Sachi...
No respect no love...
So if you want to be liked you better have repect to even get close to love my bloggy friend...
JPMerrick
2007-06-04 19:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by JPMerrick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Do you think they deserve this strong statement from you,,,,,???Maybe you can talk with a professional and things will look better to you.
2007-06-04 19:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're perfectly normal as far as I'm concerned.
2007-06-04 19:28:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its because Paris Hilton is a piece of sh*t
2007-06-04 19:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most people are hate-worthy.
2007-06-04 20:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by January 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋