well i dont no if he'll like my body also, i mean i shave down there and stuff wich is what he prefers but what if he doesnt like the way i look, and is there going to be a lot of blood and stuff?
2007-06-04 12:24:48 · 36 answers · asked by Clairebear_sk8r 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I am wondering how old you are. The reason I ask is because you sound super young. Maybe you should wait a little longer.
Will it hurt? Maybe. Some girls it does hurt, and some girls, it does not. Does he know you are a virgin? If so, make sure he is careful, and goes slow until you are comfortable.
As for how much blood there will be...the odds are great there won't be a whole lot. But, there might be some. Everyone is different when it comes to taht, and some girls don't bleed at all.
I just hope you are not doing this too young. You dont' want to regret this.
Good luck.
BesT WisheS!
2007-06-04 12:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by Tammy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Is he a virgin too?
If you both are teens...he won't care about your body, all he is caring about is his orgasm.
He doesn't care if you shave down there, all he is caring about is his orgasm.
There will not be a lot of blood maybe a little bit, but he won't care because all he will care about is his orgasm.
If he is a virgin.....then the whole thing is going to last maybe 2 minutes.
Think long and hard about what you are getting into.
Do you really want to sleep with a guy who you are afraid that he may or may not like your body. Sounds like a pretty shallow relationship.
Wait until you are older.
2007-06-04 12:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by Mark F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Most girls are sorry after the first time . It is true you'll never forget the first guy, you also will never see him after a while.
If you were filled with unbridled passion , at least I could understand. But just to please some jock.
I saw one girl write that the sperm breaks the hymen. Not on this planet at least. The hymen is broken by the penis thrust. On some occasions , it takes more than one times.
Hymens differ greatly , the thicker the hymen , the most the pain. Some are thin and look like bubble gum when blown into a bubble and lighter in color.
Premature sex is like smoking. you tell yourself that you like it.
Most guys 99.9 % couldn't tell if you were a virgin or not.
One day you may meet a guy who is everything to you. In his presence your toes will curl. He will offer you the world and you will be the world to him.
What will you offer him?
At tender ages guys collect girls innocents like coin collecting. Don't be a notch on someones belt. Offer that gift in love. The rewards are great and the act becomes much greater at the right time.
There are those here that don't care , because theirs is gone. Hang on a little longer.
2007-06-04 12:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT let people pressure you! And 16 is not an "expectancy" date for virginity. Trust me, the older you get, the more valuable virginity is. I wish I had waited. I lost mine when I was 16. It was not worth it, because guess what, if they are calling you names now, they aren't nearly as hurtful as the ones they will call you after you've "done it". Teenagers are just that way. Don't give in. Only you can decide if you are ready. Just be able to deal with the consequences after the fact.
2016-05-21 05:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loosing your virginity does hurt a bit, and there is a little blood afterwards but it`s not that much, and as for your body i`m sure you don`t have to worry, I think if this guy likes you or loves you,the way you shave or how you body looks isn`t going to matter a whole lot, and I`ll tell you this, that we worry more about our figures and looks then men do.GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-06-04 12:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by Goth Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, he's going to be so thrilled that a naked girl is letting him touch her that he's not going to be hung up on all of the little things that you think are wrong with your body (but are really perfectly fine). You may bleed and you may not, and it will probably hurt a bit, but it's not that bad. Just make sure you use condoms to protect against STDs and pregnancy. And, I hope you're doing this because you truly want to and feel ready, because if you're unsure, it's perfectly okay to wait.
2007-06-04 12:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by manatee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's probably going to be blood. And it will hurt. But you shouldn't have sex with anyone unless you're confident enough in your body and yourself. You only lose your virginity once so make sure that you're ready when you do it. Otherwise, you might regret it for a long time.
2007-06-04 12:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WAIT TILL YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH you are obvisouly not old enough wait till you move out go to college graduate at least from highschool first before you make that big move. You do not want on your consious having to deal with should i get a an abortion or should i keep it because either way it will change your life forever! So your best bet is to wait until you have a job moved out and experiance life for yourself before you make such a big desions because once that is done it is done no turning back and besides he might not even be the right boy man. So wait till you are awomen and you find a right man for you.
2007-06-04 12:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be prepared, it will HURT. Your hymen will be broken and it will be bleeding. Not like a stuck pig but enough to cause alarm. I suggest if you don't 100% love and trust the guy, then dont do it. However if you do, USE A LUBRICATED CONDOM then make sure he takes his time. After all he is entering you, and you are not just a ride at Six Flags. Be safe sweetie, and be prepared, you are leaving the world of girl and entering the universe of woman.
2007-06-04 12:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most likely, yes, it will hurt the first few times.
First, there's the hymen - not every girl has one, but if you do, it will break, bleed, and hurt.
Second, nothing (I assume) has been up there before - at least nothing substantial, and that will hurt as it will stretch things.
Third, if you use a condom (and please do) with spermicide (again, please do), the chemicals will burn a little as you will not be used to it.
It has been described to me as "a good hurt" and it goes away after about three or four times, then feels good.
Regarding losing your virginity in general, go to my blog at www.myspace.com/thedavezone - it is under "Things that piss me the F off (get comfortable)."
2007-06-04 12:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋