I had sex and the condom broke. What do i do ?

Question

my bf and i are trying to get the morning after pill but i don't have my liscence so they won't let me get it and he can't get it are there any other ways to deal with this. If i told my parents they would disown me. :'-(

Answer 1

go to a free clinic.........

Answer 2

It's a little too early to make a plan to "deal with this" without knowing first if you have become pregnant. You may or may not be.

Wait until the time you're expecting your next menstrual period and purchase an over-the-counter pregnancy test which you can use quickly, privately, and safely in your own bathroom. If you don't know when your next menstrual period should happen, wait 14 days from the day the condom broke and take the home pregnancy test.

If you get a positive result, you are pregnant and should make an appointment with a doctor at once for the best ideas on what to do next. If the result is negative, then you only need to worry about whether you've shared an intimate STD with the boyfriend in question, which might be an entirely separate set of worries, depending on who you and your boyfriend are.

Parents seldom disown pregnant daughters in this century. They might feel terribly disappointed in you and worried about your future as a very young mother or as someone considering an abortion, but chances are they'll not be dumping you and your iPod out on the lawn with nowhere to go.

Having sex is a grownup thing to do, as is worrying about whether one is pregnant or not. If you are feeling too young and helpless to find yourself worrying about unwanted pregnancy after the unexpected disaster of a broken condom, perhaps you should hold off on the sex-bits until you're ready to accept the reality of pain and fear as well as pleasure as a consequence of your actions.

That's just how we grown-ups roll.

Answer 3

You wouldnt be far enough along to need a prego test so dont waste the money. I would call your Dr. for a confidental adolesant appt. so you can get on the pill and make sure you will be ok. or you can go to the local planparent hood near you. Useing more than 1 form of protection is a must if you are going to have Sex and you do not want to have a child. Not to mention getting an STD. Using 2 condoms for the next time because you know there will be would be a good thing to incase on breaks and it will help him last a lil longer * wink wink* But Right now you can pray to high heaven you do not get prego and get checked out by a Dr. Its the waiting game for you kido. Good Luck and Becareful.

Answer 4

Definitely go to planned parenthood, not only will they help you with the morning after pill, but they will also help educate you on how to prevent this from happening again. I don't know why people are preaching to you about how "this is why young people shouldn't be having sex"...condoms break no matter what age the people using them are! It happens, and you're definitely not the first. Go talk to someone, take the pill, maybe get some birth control pills while your there...Oh...and get tested for STD's!! Pregnancy is not the only thing you need to worry about if you are having sex and the condom breaks!
Good luck!

Answer 5

I'm a parent of a girl who at 15 got pregnant. She felt pretty much the same as you do I think. I know your situation is not the same as my daughters,so without a lot to go on, I'll tell you a little about it.

I was in the middle of raising a family of 5 when this happened.Her Mom and I had talked to her about sex ,and we lived around farms so there was really no mystery anyhow. She took chances, actually she was easy, and lucky for a year or so. We did the grounding thing, which over the years has proven not to work for anyone.
She tried to cover it up, her boyfriend was talking about abortion and she didn't want to go that way. We as a family don't believe in abortion. Morning after,Maybe? Any way she finally told her mother who got all worried about my reaction,and
told my daughter I'd kill her, and arranged to meet me on my way home from work to
inform me and run block for my daughter so I couldn't kill her.
when I got the news ,I was expecting and hoping not to hear, I just felt happy that we were going to have a baby in the house again.All I could do was to hug my girl to put her at ease and talk about renovating a room to suit her and a baby. I loved my daughter and could only think of how scared she was to tell us. I was glad she told us and didn't try to abort and maybe ruin her life.
I don't expect your parents to act like me, but I didn't think I'd act that way either.Unless you have some terrible people for parents I don't think they will disown you. You may be in for an emotional rollercoaster ride, but most times ,nobody loves you like a parent. If You are sorry about disappointing them let them know now and always by your actions. Be sure to thank them often for what they try to do to help.
I really hope this helps you to decide what to do . Once you are sure please tell them. Inthe meanwhile ,be nice. If you are not pregnant get on the pill.
If you want to, let me know how things work out.

Answer 6

Your parents would never disown you, that is only what you think. Don't worry right now, you don't even know that you are pregnant, and just because it tore, does not mean that you are definitely pregnant. Whatever you do, don't panic, and do anything drastic. Things will always work out in the end. Just wait, take a pregnancy test, and speak with an adult that you trust. You'll be fine, don't panic, everything happens for a reason! ;-)

Answer 7

some people are so rude with the way they answer a question. i think you would just need some form of valid picture ID. even a social security card and a picture school ID would probably work. im not sure but call the pharmacy and ask what they require and then find a way to get the necessary ID. you need to get the morning after pill within 72 hours so get to work

Answer 8

Your parents will not disown you... and if it has already been over 24 hours the morning after pill is invalid and if you are prego and use it you can severely harm your baby. I suggest you take bc to the next level if you are not ready to have a child. Or stop having sex.

Answer 9

I suggest you go to the local planned parenthood ... they will help whether or not you have a drivers license or id. I also suggest if you're going to be having sex that you have a secondary form of preventative birth control besides condoms, either depo provera or birth control pills work well.

Answer 10

Well just so you know, you have 48 hours to get your hands on the morning after pill. So unless your boyfriend wants to be a daddy, i would beg him to find a friend w/ a car so you can go to a walk-in clinic and get the morning after pill.

And also, if you had sex around 15 days after your period, your chances of getting pregnant are higher. If you just had your period, or you're getting it any day now...you're chances are much much much much much lower.

Answer 11

You need to go to a local free clinic that can help you, they deal with situations like this all the time. Other than that you need to own up to your decisions. You chose to have sex and this is always a risk. If you cant live with the reprecussions then you shouldnt be having sex at all.