alot of my friends have dance partys like every weekend.. we all mostly are bout 14-17 at tha party.. no one really cares how old anyone is we jus party!! livin it up if u knw wat i mean!! but some adults think tht we party way too much and tht we all may be a lil too young to be partying!! but this isnt tha 60's anymore.. i mean i knw at least half of my freinds at school r not virgins.. at least thts wat they say.. but i wud not be surprised!! things r changin in our world.. so i think we sud jus party and have fun!!!
2007-06-04 11:08:22 · 12 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hold up..
parties? sure why not
drugs/alc/smoking - bad bad bad!
listening to the music and dancing - very good
not being a virgin by age of 17 - BAD
people say all sorts of fibles so dont believe everything you hear. With sex thing, please wait a bit, do it with a person who really truly loves you and deserves you
best of luck
2007-06-04 11:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by megaherzfan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, besides fun, you want to make sure that you are still keeping up your grades -- colleges are getting more and more competition these years. As far as parties go, I'm 17 and I started going to dance parties in south america...when i was 16...personally, i don't understand why you are bragging about half your friends not being virgens...cuz that's kinda disgusting at your age, but besides that, i mean, dancing and having a little to drink is fine. Personally, I'd like to know where your guys' parents are, but whatever -- just DO NOT do drugs...have you ever noticed how in the later years, many rock stars write about how awful drugs are? well, don't start! I guess you can party now, but just keep in mind that if you start flunking school, you probably aren't going to have it so great later on in life.
2007-06-04 11:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on your definiton of partying. If you are drinking and smoking and sleeping with guys, then that is definately a problem. If you are just dancing, drinking punch, and having innocent fun, then I think it's ok as long as you don't spend too much time with it. I think that every week is a bit much, but as long as you are doing well in school and such then I guess it's ok. By the way, just because things are changing, it is NOT ok to lose your virginity until you are married. Don't get the wrong idea on that.
2007-06-04 11:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by Bobert R. 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My mom could have in no way allowed that at 14. i'm now 24 years previous, and that i take excitement in that she became into like that. 14 is totally too youthful to have a co-ed party. i don't be attentive to in case you're sexually energetic, and that i'm hoping you're no longer. I misplaced my virginity at 19 and each now and then I nevertheless think of I wasn't waiting! you have plenty time to discover your self and what you desire/desire in a relationship - you do no longer desire to furnish that part of your self away too quickly. the only reason i'm speaking approximately intercourse is because you place this interior the class of attempting to Conceive. I incredibly wish that became right into a mistake on your section. besides the fact that, in case you desire to have a large birthday (which you deserve!) you may desire to easily have a party, then according to possibility a sleepover at your place with the ladies!
2016-11-25 22:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know parents who purposely set up parties for their kids with alcohol in the house b/c they think its safer than if the kids went out to drink in an unsupervised place... i guess it is safer, but there is a reason they set the drinking age at 21... partying is fun and thts wut life is supposed to be! do w/e while you're still young and enjoy it! not like you can party hardy when your 60!!
but the whole virginity thing, id say wait a while longer... 14 is way too young to be having sex.. you haven't even had sex ed yet...
hope tht answers your questions and have fun partying the years away
2007-06-07 18:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by Maddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things been changing in every generations world at 14 -17. yea, i think you are partying too much. but as long there is no drugs or alchol what can i say. just be careful.
2007-06-04 11:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by Ida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on your definition of "partying". My partying at that age was having movie parties and the like. No drinking, drugs etc. There are other ways to have fun so hopefully you arent doing that.
2007-06-04 11:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jay Jay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its ok to have parties and stuff. just not drugs and crap. this may not be the 60's, but you should still respect yourself enough to no do something stupid. so yeah go have fun just do the right things.
2007-06-04 11:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Doll Face♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You parents don't want you to party when you 14 because they don't want to be grandparents when you are 15. And just cause your friends aren't virgins doesn't mean that they shouldn't be.
2007-06-04 11:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by Susan G 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
maybe its because your generation is turning into nothing but skanks and sluts no offense or maybe take offense you 14 times have changed but not for the better and you think its okay half your freinds are going to be living off the corner of a street asking for cash . i dont think so your sick!!!
2007-06-04 11:16:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋