I know this guy that goes on and on about himself and the influencial people he says he knows and the parties he goes to. I wonder how much is true and why he talks like this. Years ago he sort of dumped me when he went back to college. Then I had moved on by the time he called my back the next year. Now he says that he did not know he had done anything wrong and that then he did not know what he had. He now has a live-in girlfriend of almost 19 years and calls her his ladyfriend. He calls me sweetheart all the time - never by name. He wants to see me and he talks about sex but says he loves his girlfriend and could not "kick her out". Sometimes I think he brags on what he has and what he does so much because I did not come chase after him years ago. I feel like he is punishing me. Is trying to get me to be some kind of playmate? I don't feel well after I talk to him.
2007-06-04 10:39:22 · 12 answers · asked by formy p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is a type of guy you don't want to get involved with again. When people have to brag it usually means they have nothing to brag about. If he is living with her and been together for 19 years, don't you think it would be wise to step out of this circle he wants you in? He's trying to stroke his ego again by thinking you will come right back into his arms.
2007-06-04 10:50:46 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Guys brag to try to impress a girl. He sounds like a player...or at least thinks he is and he is trying to just get in your pants. The best way to handle this type of guy is simply not believe or fall for the lies. This is the Bill Clinton type..I did not have sex with the woman...did not inhale, etc.
Cocky guys get weak woman to fall for it and them, then get them to bed and move on.
Don't give him the time of day, find a better gentleman or at least one that can rock your world.
2007-06-04 10:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody likes a bragger and he sounds very full of himself too.
I say stay from him and as far as you can!!! He's trouble with a capital T.
All he wants is to use you and abuse you and I think you realize that.He'd do the same thing as he's doing to his "ladyfriend." You deserve better than that.So does she for that matter.
Likely half of what he says is lies anyway.I wouldn't trust him for anything.
If you're smart you'll stay away from him,if not,good luck.You'll need it.Trust Me.
2007-06-04 10:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay aways from him and you don't have to talk to him, if he comes to talk, just make a excuse like you want to go the bathroom or you have friend ing for you. Do not or never let anybody walk all over you, Stick to it and you feel like you are a taller person in the world.
2007-06-04 10:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by ubon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends and S.O.s are supposed to make you feel good about them and about yourself. If this man doesn't make you feel good or happy, then dump him.
Some friendships are toxic- He sounds like one.
I think he feels you boost his ego by listening to his B.S. He is using you and giving you nothing in return. Do yourself a big favor and avoid all contact with him.....Even if he starts sweet-talking you later on, don't let him continue to threaten your emotional stability.
Some people are emotional vampires-they will suck you dry and then leave you- if you let them.
2007-06-04 10:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to him. He's obviously not interested in any kind of meaningful relationship and most likely would not know how to be in one if he was.
Tell him your not interested and would rather he not contact you anymore. Move on with your life & find someone who is worth your time and energy - this guy isn't.
Good Luck!
2007-06-04 10:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by bionicbookworm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why DO you talk to him? Sounds like you need to cut him off and truly move on. It's pathetic and ridiculous for someone to be always bragging about themselves - when someone is truly accomplished, they don't need to boast; it will show. Why are you wasting your time on this guy?
2007-06-04 10:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So stop talking to him. Nobody likes a braggart. Who cares what kind of "connections" he has.
If they have to tell you how cool they are, then they're not.
2007-06-04 10:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by allison 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The stop talking to him. This is not brain surgery.
2007-06-04 10:43:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
so stop talking to the guy
2007-06-04 10:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by mario212100 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋