I have been home for 5 hours and tubby hasnt said a single word to me. I guess he is in a man strop! Are other wives ignored by their hubbies or is it just me?
2007-06-04 10:37:49 · 14 answers · asked by tubbyswife 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
slap him around a bit with a kipper, sqeeze lemon juice in his eyes and he should say a few words to you!
2007-06-04 21:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband dont ignore wive for no reason. Talk to him nicely. Tell him you need to know why he is not talking to you. Is it something wrong? Try to understand him and have him understand you as well. He needs to know that he must open up to you. Ignoring you is not a solution. Never keep things unresolved over night. If prolong, it can hurt both of you deeply. I have been married 8 years. Whenever I feel that my husband starts to take me for granted and neglect me and spent more time on hobbies and friends, I had to tell and talk to him. If not, I will feel very disturbed. Good talking during the nights when all the kids are asleep is very good quality time. Any disagreement must come to an agreement. After this, your relationship will be even stronger and better and bonded by true love. Falling in love is easy. Living together is a big challenge. This is because everyone has their own weaknesses and to have a successful relationship, there are a lot of sacrifices need to make and one must accept each other's weaknesses. That is why first you must know why he is not talking to you. He must also understand that you are not perfect but out of love, you can make the best for him and he also should make the best for you. I hope and wish you luck in talking to him.
2007-06-05 10:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
***If you came in AFTER him, then my following answer is invalid, cos as the latter door-enterer its YOU that should speak to him..In all fairness.!!
**If you were in when he came in then read on;-
Ha ha..This did make me chuckle!!
Have you ever read a book called ''Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus''
There are a whole set of them. Tho I fail to see how the author rates himself as able to give advice about relationships when he, himself, is on is fourth divorce at present, but they do make amusing reading ; and they will answer quite a few questions relating to this type of issue...
It is a man thing. And after awhile, he should approach you. But whatever you do, the book advises dont go to him, because you just prolong that man thing he's got going on there and that will mean its even longer before you get any sense out of him!!
Could be any number of reasons why he's in that mood... maybe someone cut him up on his way home in the car/van; maybe the Sun had a brunette on page 3 instead of a blonde, maybe his boss switched off the coffee machine early,
Whatever it was, it wont make any sence to you, because things that bother men dont really bother women that much... we can cope with everything a lot better than they can haha!!
OUCH .......I felt that...........!!!
Plus when he gets out of this 'mood' that you dont understand, you'll be expected to behave impeccably and be the brightest spark in the electric cupboard, so the best thing to do when this happens is ignore it, cos you wasting way too much of ya energy worrying; that's a fact!
2007-06-04 18:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Five hours? Oh, my. Is he normally a communicator, or is this out of character for him? Maybe go to him and start rubbing his shoulders - ask him if everything is alright. No, I have not experienced this. Sometimes men need to unwind a bit when they walk in the door, but 5 hours is a long time.
2007-06-04 17:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HeHeHe
LOL
thats so funny
Bless him
he gone into his cave
you must read men are from amrs and women are from venus it full of things like this
you robably tidied his desk or left his dog out LOL
who knows
they get tetchy over such little things
Just leave him to it and have some wine and cheese
Enjoy the serenity
2007-06-04 17:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the more you allow him to carry on with this childish behaviour then the more he will do it. try ignoring him and see how he likes it, maybe then he will see how futile and rediculous it is, nothing is ever settled or sorted by ignoring each other. i wonder, do you know why he is ignoring you? if not then it probably is a manstrop, even though i hate it being called that, not all of us blokes suffer from it. good luck.
2007-06-05 11:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the ignoring, but I don't even think he notices, and if he does he never asks why I am ignoring him. Unless he knows that I will just give up and speak after a while.
2007-06-04 17:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a good look at your ID....It reads "tubbyswife".
Why do you identify yourself through him? Sounds weird.
If you liked who you were, you'd have a different ID, IMO.
Maybe Tubby feels like you are a part of him- not another person...and that is why he ignores you.
2007-06-04 17:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im engaged and i get it already! normally if 2 days ago i asked him to to take the rubbish out!
go take a bath then make really loud ooo ahhh noises and see if he comes running or drop the phone book on his foot tomo or while he is asleep wake him up for no reason
2007-06-04 17:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Link attached. You've got issues. Deal with them. Also, it might help if you didn't sink to the levels of the playground in choosing nicknames for your husband & avatar (even if he treats you in an equally infantile manner).
2007-06-04 17:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by mafille.mavie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋