Okay I haven't started my period yet and everyone else has! I am 13, but is there something that could be wrong, because I have had discharge for about 2 years now! Is there something worng that I am not having my period I have boobs and hair downstairs and everything else! PLZ help!
2007-06-04 08:40:52 · 17 answers · asked by ♥*Emily*♥ 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
My mom started when she waz 9, some peeps said I could tell by that!
2007-06-04 08:43:00 · update #1
well discharge is when u are ovulating so that is y I think something might be wrong!
2007-06-04 08:45:01 · update #2
yea I definetly weigh enough I am a little overwieght
2007-06-04 12:01:39 · update #3
I had discharge and ovulation (confirmed) every month, for about two years, before I started.
Value this time!! Because you have it soon.
BTW are you considered tall and slim?
Girls like that sometimes have to wait longer. I was almost 14. Mom and Grannie got theirs at about the same. All of us were kind of lanky.
2007-06-04 08:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by hcw_07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sweetheart there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Some people get periods really early (like your mum) and others not until quite late, sometimes even 17 or 18. It doesn't matter what age your mum was when she got hers, you are a different person. Discharge is normal so don't be worrying. Try to enjoy the fact that you don't have them yet and everyone else has a lousy few days each month. You'll have them for a long time so enjoy not having them while you still can. But please don't worry because you are perfectly normal xx
p.s having discharge doesn't mean you are ovulating
2007-06-04 15:51:04 · answer #2 · answered by frizzytail77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's normal honey don't worry about it, a lot of girls start around and well above your age. I'd say that if you'd turned 16 and not yet started your periods, you should see a doctor. A lot of the time, a girl's body has to be a certain weight before their periods start, so maybe if you have a small frame, you might have to wait a little longer until your body is ready.
Happy menarche for when the time comes!
Take care,
Anna
2007-06-04 15:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is ABSOLUTLY NOTHING wrong with you. Everybody is different!!! Just because your mom started at 9 doesn't mean that if you didn't there is something wrong with you. It will come, trust me, and when it does, you'll wish it didn't. Don't worry about it. It sounds like, with the discharge, that it is well on it's way. If you are truely concerned then talk to your dr. Good luck sweetie.
2007-06-04 15:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by abadgirlwithgoodintentions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so I got mine at the beginning of 7th grade (12) but i had been discharging for a while. My doctor told me that I wasn't heavy enough and then after a while I was so just don't worry about it! My mom got hers when she was almost 15 so I got mine like 3 years before her, it doesn't really affect you when they get thiers... It'll come soon enough! Believe me, it's not fun, don't go wishing for it.
2007-06-04 16:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by miranduh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're fine!! don't worry seriously
It was like that for me and lots of other people i no
Just make sure you eat healthily and do not skip meals because this is the most common reason why people do not have periods if they are underweight
but dont worry =] ull be fine.
2007-06-04 15:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by sxclxc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its ok im 13 and pretty soon im 14 i got it yesterday for my first time and trust me u dont want it ...it feels wierd! I thought there was something wrong with me and all of a sudden i went to the bathroom and it was in my pants ....just wait for it it will come!
2007-06-04 15:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry your still young and your body will have it when its ready. There is not real way of determining when it will come you will just have to wait and see...
Just becuase everyone else has it doens't make you any less of a person. Trust me hunny enjoy not having it while you can cause when you get it you will hate it
2007-06-04 16:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started when I was very young, but then again I knew someone that didnt start until they were 17. Everyone is different, it just depends on the person.
2007-06-04 15:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by MizzTaylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to my sister. Stress may be a big cause of not having it yet. Just relax and don't worry about it. It will come eventually.
2007-06-04 15:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by chives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋