he's my boyfriend and all he wants from me is sex (i think) because thats all he wants to do.... what i should i do... i told my parents and they think i am a liar but this is NOT fake or a joke because it isn't funny... HELP!!
2007-06-04 08:33:58 · 93 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Ohhh... sweetheart you are only 13 years old. Sex should be the last thing on your mind. And for your so called boyfriend he is committing a crime. It is illegal (in most states) for an 18 year old to have sex with a 13 year old.
Also if he does not respect the fact that you don't want to have sex, then honey he is not your boyfriend, and frankly you don't need him. You might think now that losing him would be the worst thing ever, but losing yourself and your safety is way worse than losing some boy. You are so young and you have so much living and loving to do.
If you don't feel comfortable doing something then tell him that, if he doesn't respect that then you should not be with him Protect yourself, and your values. Until you are comfortable- don't put yourself in a situation where he could take advantage of you or want to have sex with you.
Honey if you ever listen to anything that anyone says to you please let it be this- I want you to know that this is very special to me becuase I will share this with my daughter when she is old enough to understand.
Protect yourself from everything- when a boy makes you cry realize that he is not worth crying over. When your parents don't listen- know that they are listening but for some reason as adults get older their language changes and they don't quite understand everything that you are trying to say. Be paitent with your parents. They really do care about you, they want you to be safe, healthy and happy. Know that friends are the most important thing next to family. Friends will always be there for you when you cry, they will be there to laugh at a funny joke, cry at your wedding and be the first one to call you a "mommy in training". Know that education will follow you everywhere and without it you will get no-where. Please know that your body your feelings and your thoughts are- YOURS. If someone doesn't respect you for you- then they don't deserve you.
Also- Remember to wear a seat belt, eat your veggies, drink your milk, do your homework, and love yourself.
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2007-06-09 18:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by E>SummerLove<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have no business dating an 18 year old at your age. Especailly if you think the only thing he wants from you is sex. If that is how you feel break up with him. Go talk to an adult that you trust because obviously your parents don't care. What he is doing is illegal. You do not want to end up with a child at your age & that might happen if you continue having sex with him or anyone else. Have fun & enjoy life. I hope this helps.
2007-06-08 08:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told your parents and they don't believe you? Whatever.
Regardless, yes it's wrong and disgusting. An 18 year old trying to seduce a 13 year old is a PREDATOR.
You should tell the police, not your parents.
...and get used to boys wanting sex, because that's what they do.
2007-06-04 08:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by M T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Also if he does not respect the fact that you don't want to have sex, then honey he is not your boyfriend, and frankly you don't need him. You might think now that losing him would be the worst thing ever, but losing yourself and your safety is way worse than losing some boy. You are so young and you have so much living and loving to do.
If you don't feel comfortable doing something then tell him that, if he doesn't respect that then you should not be with him Protect yourself, and your values. Until you are comfortable- don't put yourself in a situation where he could take advantage of you or want to have sex with you.
Honey if you ever listen to anything tha
2014-10-30 09:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's absolutely wrong. at 13 years old you probably haven't even hit highschool yet, and have had enough life experience to make such a desicion. (most of your life thus far has been as a child) an 18 year old knows better, is a legal adult now, and yes for him to be with a 13 year old is only for the sex. sorry to say but there is nothing a boy that old and a girl that young could have in common to have a healthy loving relationship, he's trying to use you in a preverse way and end the relationship now. if your parents don't believe you and his keeps going on go to another trusted adult
2007-06-04 08:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very wrong but u need to decide if u are ready to put this guys life on the line for u. IS he pressuring u. If He is don't give in. I know what it feels like because i am 14 dating a 18 year old if u are in love u are in love nobody can do anything about it. Matter of fact I am having his kid but when u have sex with him u need to be ready to take care of a kid whether u are using a condom or not!!!!!!!!!!! GOOD LUCK i know what u are going through!
2007-06-09 18:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had sex for the first time when I was 14 w/ my then bf of two yrs... he was 16. Looking back, I had no business having sex. At that age you aren't ready for all the emotions that are associated with it. As for the guy... what is he thinking? He is an adult and you are still a child! I don't mean that in a bad way! You should enjoy the freedom from responsibility and relationships at that age. Hang out with your girlfriends. If you aren't ready for sex, talk to him. If he doesn't respect your wishes then kick him to the curb. If he cared he wouldn't pressure you.
2007-06-04 08:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by Elizabeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and loving to do.
If you don't feel comfortable doing something then tell him that, if he doesn't respect that then you should not be with him Protect yourself, and your values. Until you are comfortable- don't put yourself in a situation where he could take advantage of you or want to have sex with you.
Honey if you ever listen to anything that anyone says to you please let it be this- I want you to know that this is very special to me becuase I will share this with my daughter when she is old enough to understand.
Protect yourself from everything- when a boy makes you cry realize that he is not worth crying over. When your parents don't listen- know that they are listening but for some reason as adults get older their language changes and they don't quite understand everything that you are trying to say. Be paitent with your parents. They really do care about you, they want you to be safe, healthy and happy. Know that friends are the most important thing next to family. Friends will always be there for you w
2014-11-06 08:47:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very wrong for an 18 year old boy to have sex with a 13 year old. One, he could be charged with rape, even if you consent, and Two, you are wayyyyyy to young!
2007-06-09 16:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by Sophiesmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you need to break up with him. For one your to young for him and he should know better! 5 yr difference matters at this stage of the game. Tell him NO and that it means NO!! If he doesn't like it then go to a teacher or school councilor for some help!! Your parents need to listen to you when you have a problem! Because if you get pregnant then they will have a bigger problem as well. Since he is 18 he is committing Statutory rape of a miner. Your old enough to consent to sex. Please seek help from your School councilor. Good Luck to you!!
2007-06-04 08:51:00 · answer #10 · answered by kolowski4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋