Is controlling and does not participate in anything with his wife, mocks his wife in public, does not cooperate in parenting his kids with his wife and does not want to discuss the situation? Would you leave him?
2007-06-04 08:19:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And if you did, what is the best way to get out without too much lost?
2007-06-04 09:03:37 · update #1
It appears to me that he doesn't care enough to try to make things work. It will be hard... But I think you deserve more.
2007-06-04 08:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you prayed and asked God to change his heart? Ask him to go to church with you. Tell him that the marriage needs a boost and you don't know how to accomplish that, but that you feel abused, mocked and alone in raising the children. Ask him if he is trying to get rid of you and wait for his response.
Sometimes men just need to know that there is a problem and then they try to fix it. They are creatures of habit and like getting their way, saying what they want and doing what they want and acting like they want.
Put a knot in his rope.
2007-06-04 15:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes by all means! If someone you are with does not make you feel good about yourself than you are with the wrong person. Make a plan and get on with your life as soon as possible. This also is teaching your children to act like Daddy if you are allowing this behavior.
2007-06-04 15:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by questiongirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-06-04 15:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by Christina S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What, really, is the question here? Of course leave him. This one is a no-brainer, hon. Be prepared for him to make life miserable for you when you leave and until th ekids are grown. Brace yourself and make sure you have a good support system with friends and family. Good luck.
2007-06-04 15:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by Lively 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two words: HELL YES!!!
He's controlling and abusive and she and the kids need to get out of there as soon as possible!
2007-06-04 15:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would leave him - I wouldn't even bother with counseling becuase it sounds like the problem is now beyond that.
2007-06-04 15:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he refuses to go to counselling I would say absolutely... Abuse is grounds for divorce as far as I'm concerned!
2007-06-04 15:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by Oula 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fix her marriage or get a divorce.
She is in control of her life.....
Waving the victim flag around on this web site will solve nothing for her....
2007-06-04 15:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by flyfish_777 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Head for the hills.
2007-06-04 15:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋