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Whould you choose to start your life with a partner ( friend, husband/ wife or even in job),,,,

which one will you choose , the one will make you happy, or the one will make you feel safe??? and please try to give me an example by explaining your answer.


Thanks

2007-06-04 07:29:39 · 17 answers · asked by The critic flower. 3 in Arts & Humanities Philosophy

Plus there is some kind of happines which is fake or you find out it wasn't for you or when it takes a small period of time , what do you think??

2007-06-04 07:38:19 · update #1

17 answers

I don't think you can have happiness without safety. But I would choose happiness because If I'm happy that means I'm safe.

2007-06-04 07:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I would rather be happy than safe because money isnt every thing. you could all the money in the world and be the sadest person in the world but the person that lower or middle class with a loving family a job that pays the bills and someone to love her the way she should is so much better than being rich and sitting in your huge house alone and sitting in your house with a bunch of fake friends. whats the point unless you live life to the fullest cause you only live once make it count for all that you can.

2007-06-12 12:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by Pretty Green Eyes 2 · 0 0

Happiness! When you are truly happy then you have achieved the ultimate goal of every human and everything else will fall into place. Including safety! If you can't feel happy and safe, then it isn't the right situation for you, be it marriage or a job. Good Luck!

2007-06-04 14:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by Shandi 1 · 0 0

Safety is an illusion. No matter what any entity does, no person is truly safe.There are certain steps people can take to stay out of danger, but that is different than safety. Happiness is much more important. It would be great if everyone in this world were happy, not content, but happy.

2007-06-04 14:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by badmfbri 3 · 2 0

There are very few who should answer this question. There are risk-taker and their risk-avoiders. But neither are purely one or the other.

A man may choose a partner based on her appeal to his wild side. But there are limits and if she were excessively unconventional, he would rather stay away.

Everybody owns a spot on the risk-safety continuum and most are clustered in the middle.

2007-06-12 12:42:17 · answer #5 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0 0

Safe happiness is always good but there is an adrenaline rush with happiness without safety. I guess the logical answer would be safety first :-P

2007-06-04 15:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by aranate 1 · 0 0

Safety

example

driving the car in very high speed to catch the party so "i can feel happiness for more long period"

but this really bad, i had to drive slowly so i can have my rest of life either than dieing from accident

2007-06-05 05:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Courage is the not absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear.

The brave may not live forever, but the cautious do not live at all.

From now on, you’ll be traveling the road between who you think you are and who you can be.

The key is to allow yourself to make the journey.

2007-06-04 14:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0 0

Happiness is the key to well-being. Fortunately it is relative, so one can improve it one thought at a time, one moment at a time, step by joyous step.
As for the example, you be the example. Check it out.
Is it not worth that much to you to live a perfect life?

2007-06-04 14:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by canron4peace 6 · 1 0

Usually happiness is not easy. You need to make sacrifices. People choose. But the real thing is to make sacrifices to find your inner self, it's not easy, but it's the truth that we all search for. Peace and enlightment!!! Good luck!

2007-06-10 20:38:59 · answer #10 · answered by awakenursoul 2 · 0 0

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