2007-06-04 06:10:06 · 11 answers · asked by tyra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wait. He did it while you two were supposedly still a couple? Then no. I wouldn't, because he is going to be responsible for that child the rest of his life, and that spells disaster for your relationship. It is possible to work it out, but the odds of it not succeeding are too great to bother. If he did it once, who is to say he won't do it again? Unfortunately, the past is often the greatest indicator of the future.
That said, if you mean that he did it with someone BEFORE you were an item, then sure. If he was with someone and they had a child and it did not work out, then that is not necessarily his fault. How he treats that child will be a great indicator of his character, too.
2007-06-04 06:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be able to forgive him. It's bad enough to cheat but to cheat and now have the responsibility of a child to support would be a constant reminder to me. I would move on.
2007-06-04 06:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by Stacey B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No first of all he cheated and he didnt give a damn about you or your feelings and the fact that your trying to better your future you cannot forgive a ***** for having a baby from someone else thats just a NO!NO! And please dont be no fool
2007-06-04 06:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by trice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask yourself this... will I be able to accept the infidelity + the child + the mother = baby momma drama? I have actually been in this situation before if you need to talk feel free to e-mail me. JLady_713@yahoo.com
2007-06-04 06:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by UgetwhatUaskfor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you're thinking about it. He is going to be busy with his finances and his obligations. Not to mention the fact that he never cared about you if he was willing to do this.
2007-06-04 06:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by Julieann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not.....good time to get out and find someone to start fresh with..........the whole trust thing is gone....not to mention that child is not going to disappear.......it will be a constant hurtful reminder........forever........get out!
2007-06-04 06:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
he played you, and now there's a child involved in the sorry mess.
He's very selfish.
Walk away.
2007-06-04 06:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by oisian88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no girl your smart ,and you don't need somebody who will decieve you and hurt you you went school not prison,so tell him to the left,to the left . stay up
2007-06-04 06:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a cheater is always a cheater. move on or you will get hurt again
2007-06-04 06:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by Yes I am here!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a word: never.
2007-06-04 06:16:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋