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Im 20yrs old and pretty sociable. I sometimes get moody at night when im alone, especially when im home alone!
Why do i feel this way???
Does anybody feel the same??

2007-06-04 04:20:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Psychology

11 answers

You sound like you are a socialite. What I mean by that is that you seem to thrive in a social (lots of people) environment. So when you are alone, especially at night you are unhappy and in your words moody.

I am guessing that you also want or need a "special man" in your life, and dont have one.

I personally am alone most of the time also, (am single), and it is not always fun. Men and women were not meant to be alone, we were meant to keep each other company.

It can be miserable, and sometimes enjoyable, but you my dear are having an anxiety attack because of the lack of people around you.

Try to find a boyfriend, or get a room mate, at least then, you would not be so moody. Even someone to talk with on the phone would be better than being alone.

Good luck dear.

2007-06-04 04:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel R. 4 · 0 0

Oh my God girl I know exactly how you feel... Im a social butterfly I love to go out and I am 20 years to but if you leave me alone at night by myself for one night I get depressed moody and I feel like horrible... I don't know why but it is really weird. i guess it is because perhaps the reason be we are sociable is why... I do like my alone time in the afternoon just at night it depresses me.. I completely hear you... I think it may be a hormonal imbalance or something...

2007-06-04 04:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Sometimes getting moody is not a problem to worry. How long the mood lasts and how it affects is important. If you are able to handle your loneliness at other times, you may try the same to get over the feeling of being moody. Or a similar activity to get over it.

And only when you get 'moody' you learn to be sociable and make yourself happy.
Your gender may also 'sometimes ' makes you moody, and being aware of the same also helps.

2007-06-04 04:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by Swami Manickananda 3 · 0 0

becasue you are home alone and you may not feel confertable when that way...so plan yourself fun activities you can do alone..it will give you something to look forward to during the way and improve your mood..like a hot bath and glass of wine, a good book or rent some movies...call some gal pals...or make it a weekly thing and once a week invite some froends over for a game night..then the times you are alone you will know you have something cool to look forward to...sometimes some alone grumpy time isnt all that bad..gives you some down time..

2007-06-04 04:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by becca9892003 6 · 0 0

Apparently, you don't know what to do with yourself when you're alone. Make a conscious effort to find some books to read, get involved with a hobby or activity, or something else that doesn't involve people. I don't need to tell you that there are times in life when it's not possible to have someone with you. The sooner you develop the ability to do things alone, the happier you'll be.

2007-06-04 04:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by clarity 7 · 0 0

yes,,sometimes i feel that way-every body does at times..
does something trigger it,, thinking too hard about a problem,something may have happened during the day?
tension,stress,anxiety can lead to a panic diorder.
dont stress about things,relieve tension,by exercising,or a massage,get plenty of rest,avoid alchol,caffeine and nicotine,they can cause stress,,do something u enjoy,,like dude said,sex,is relaxing,to some,see a funny movie,play a video game,dont have ur day with too much or too little,keep a record of ur symptoms,when they occur and what u were thinking when it happened,,start talking 2 people on-line,ur friends,chat groups,,myself,,i dont get into the chat rooms.too many fake people out there.enjoy life and have fun,,,this information came from a health wise hand book,,,hope u feel better,later.

2007-06-04 05:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by donttrustsnowmen 5 · 1 0

And spark off the Munchie Alarm, besides . . . speedy! Have that chef who's smoking oregano pass all the way down to Kwickie Mart and get some greater munchies! we are very almost out of them!

2016-11-04 22:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I hate to be alone. I just watch alot of tv

2007-06-04 04:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by bridget36 3 · 0 0

Because you are probabaly lonely.

2007-06-04 04:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by F1maniac 2 · 0 0

You are just lonely and don't know what else to do.

2007-06-04 04:28:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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