If you knew you was going to die very soon, would you tell the women you love, you love them or keep it secret

Question

or what else would you do. I would tell the women i love them. But if you survived would you regret telling them etc if not why not tell them now?

Answer 1

of course, i will tell the woman i like her, i mean what could be more worse than not telling what is in your heart before you go from Earth, right? at least you got the joy of telling the person you want how you feel. Who knows maybe the girl will give you a chance to give her a kiss before you die?

If i were to survive, then i will not regret it still, i mean what would be you regret more, you survive or telling the girl you love her? i think the choice would be very easy right?

Answer 2

Inked- We have had very much a similar life it seems. I am dealing with the same thing right now, except my father moved on much quicker. He was dating in a month and a half and is now engaged even though my mother has only passed on 14 months ago. I have done the same as far as trying to keep my mouth shut, but when it came time that he told me they will be getting married in August I had to speak up and will continue to. I believe that they are trying to replace the loneliness they feel. My mom and dad were slightly short of their 30th anniversary when my mom passed, and I honestly think after that much time with someone they have a hard time not having that companionship, but to me that is not a reason to remarry. Make sure your father is emotionally ready to move on. I know almost all in my family desperately need some counseling, most of all my dad, but I have found that I cannot even have a successful relationship after a lifetime of seeing theirs and the way it ended. There are no answers when it comes to this, just make sure that you don't stay quiet if you feel somethings wrong. Sometimes parents need us to give them reality checks too! I am sorry for your loss as well.

Answer 3

Depends. If I'm not telling her right now then why not? Am I protecting her from the consequences? Protecting myself from the consequences? Maybe it's best to let her know how much she is esteemed and appreciated, than confessing undying love, then go die, and maybe break her heart.

Regardless of what the issue is, the dying have a duty to try not to leave the living behind them in any sort of mess, emotional or otherwise.

Answer 4

I would tell them, being honest is the best policy. But I would also let them know that of course I could still live to be 100, doctors have been known to be wrong.
Being honest will make life with my loved one more special..its my philosophy that we all need to live our lives as each day may be our last...because it could be. Value everyone and everything.

Answer 5

We would not tell. Although we might try to spend time with them and then it might slip out. Might tell them we where going to die soon. Hard to say desperation makes the most steadfast individuals do the strangest things. Knowing self’s past actions we would not tell em.

Answer 6

Why should living make it that you regret telling them? Why not live your life for NOW and not what might happen? Love is too precious not to share. What do you really get by keeping it to yourself. Dignity? Would you rather be happy or would you rather be miserable and dignified...pretty clear choice for me. Tell them...whether you're dying or not.

Answer 7

well had the case been with me i would have kept it a secret. when all this time i was sure of my existence i never revealed it then why now when i know that i have no time left. my confession wont bring a smile on his face but rather pain to both of us. it would be so much heart breaking for him to know that one girl who loved him so much is going away. and if by chance i survived i wont delay a second to make my confession to him because by then i would have understood how it pains to lose your love.

Answer 8

if she does not know that you love her it will do more harm than good.if you tell her that you love her and she feels the same ,and then you go and die think of the pain and suffering.her heart would be broken and may never recover from your loss.but everyday you wake up you may die so you should not waist time to express yourself because tomorrow may never come.in short if you feel that strong about it do it then at least you can die knowing.

Answer 9

I think it would be cruel to not tell her.

So if you survive, evidently the risk of you dying was not 100%.

But if you don't share this information you are not allowing her to spend more time with you.

Answer 10

you need to do something extravagent to get her attention before you tell her and if it end up you dont die you just look like a sweet careing extravagent jackass better then just a jackass