i met my SOULMATE but we can never be TOGETHER.....?

Question

is it Possible?
:-(

Answer 1

Soulmate (or soul mate) is a term sometimes used to designate someone with whom one has a feeling of "deep" and natural affinity, friendship, bond, a caring for, love, intimacy, sexuality, and/or compatibility.

Spiritual and religious – concepts of reincarnation and karma. Soulmates have spent many previous lifetimes together but not all

By definition, a soulmate is the one person on this earth that completes you, complements you, and is your "better half." Most people will, unfortunately, never meet his or her soulmate. It is that one person that you become one with; emotionally, spiritually and physically. You connect with that one person on a whole different level, and all else become insignificant. You are yin, they are the yang. One balances and steadies the other.
History has letters from people who profess to be each others soulmate and never met. Poets, artist.etc. They shared what they could.
If possible it would be wise to take advantage of it, as these examples did benefit despite the heartache. Because of the connection to the others true emotions. A form that is more than just affection or sentiment. It almost acts consistently (no one is perfect) in the very best interests of the other, even if they do not fully appreciate it at times. If, it is a true soulmate-they sincerely seek the other's good according to what is right. An -A·ga´pe (love) that transcends personal enmities, "never allowing "these to cause one to abandon right principles.Thus, it could be said that agape love ,involves the heart as well as the mind.. Soulmates is a very Noble kind of connection that is in very few. Some mistake being in love with someone as their Soulmate. because of intense feelings but there is a difference.


So yes by definition it is possible.

Answer 2

You are very Fortunate 2 have met your Soulmate.but, How can you say you can Never be Together? if this is Truly Your Soulmate...you are already Together...Sometimes certain Situations may Prevent you from being Together Physically...but 2 use the word Never..sounds...to me like...you Believe it is not Possible....when...my Friend....anything is Possible....It depends on the situation....Please do not think it is Never Possible to be with that person.... I'm sure whatever you think stands in the way can surely be resolved... I don't know the details of Your situation...but, you should not let anything in the way of You,and Your Soulmate.... I Truly Believe anything is Possible.....

Good Luck 2 You.... enki.....

You must turn Your :( upside down :)

=)

Answer 3

i believe the concept of a single "soulmate" existing in the world is flawed. any number of people could be a possible "soulmate", but we only get the opportunity to experience so many people in this life that we are very fortunate that we actually meet any of these people. but it seems chances are good that we will meet at least one- as like souls tend to be drawn to each other like magnets. when one is near you will likely feel this drawing pull.
the idea of a single "soulmate" comes from the idea that God created people specifically for each other. this is a spin-off of the predestination line of thought. I have found God to be a lot more flexible than this and offering us (as created beings) a considerable amount of freedom in our lives.
i've come across a few "soulmates" in my life- usually they make excellent friends, but are much too similar to myself for us to ever have lived "together" for very long. I've known others that were couples or even married at one time that experienced the same thing. Although not TOGETHER any longer they are still great friends.
my concept is based solely on dictionary definitions:
1) a person with whom one has a strong affinity.
2) One of two persons compatible with each other in disposition, point of view, or sensitivity.

if you have a different idea of "Soulmate" then my answer may not apply. Peace.

Answer 4

If you met your Soulmate then you can communicate telepathically. Your spirits are connected. Sooner or later, you will meet again. If not in this life time, it will be in the next. But always know this, you and your Soulmate are always together in spirit. Your Soulmate is with you now. Your material existence is a journey. But Love is Eternal. We are all connected. Expand your consciousness and say hello to your Soulmate.

Answer 5

Never is a long time and soul-mate is a strong word (personally, I think we all have more than one, but that's just me!). Let's look at possible... yes it is possible to meet someone that your heart, soul, and very fiber of your being recognises and yearns for. Soul-mate or deep friend - call it what you will - they do exist. I know. I am blessed to have some of my own!

The 'never be together' bit troubles me. Why? What is keeping you apart? Distance, time, space? What is it you want to share? Are the needs physical? Does soul recognition make you long for physical expression? If so, start talking and problem solving. There is a solution to everything, if two people are willing to mutually bend to make the pieces fit.

Your question was 'Is it possible?' It is possible that you can be together. It depends on the pair of you! It is also possible that you'll never get there... again... it's about what we DO... not what we yearn for. Just my opinion :)

Oh... and best wishes. Recognition, sharing, and sparking lives, ideas, and love is one of the best things this world has to offer! :)

Answer 6

just want to share to you an article i have read about soulmates. it states that soulmates do not necessarily have to be together, and if you actually met your soulmate then you are lucky to begin with.....in the article, someone asked what he should do if he finds his soulmate and both of them are already married or in a relationship....and these are the answers...."a true soulmate would not ask you to leave who you are with and bring such turmoil into your life....a true soulmate would be concerned with your ultimate peace of mind.....no one ever said that soulmates cannot be friends" .........
i could not remember who wrote this article and i am not saying that this really is the truth...but i can say that i believe in this one.....
hope you find enlightenment in this one :)

Answer 7

YES, it is possible.

I don't think there's really anything cosmic about finding someone who seems to be your soulmate. It's just when you find someone who you really, really connect with in a deep, profound way. It's not written in the stars. It's just something that happens. I knew a girl like that. I'm sorry to break it to you, but she left me behind and now there's zero chance of us ever getting together. It took me a long time to get over her, and the pain was terrible, but--sure enough--I did. Now I'm able to move on. I've found a great new relationship, and life goes on.

I really hope things could work out for you. If they don't, remember this: never give up hope. Hope is as necessary as the air we breath, and as long as we are breathing, I believe that there is ALWAYS hope.

Answer 8

Well, first of all I would like to know- have you ever thought what actually make two people SOULMATES, if not the ETERNAL bonding of their souls? And if you would try to look at it from that perspective, then I’m sure you would find more tranquility & hope within yourself than sorrow. Because, if we’ve to believe this profound yet intriguing phenomenon called soulmate then we also have to believe in its "Eternal-ness" as well that says- soulmate bonding does exist forever- they’ve always been together & they’ll always be so- much before the existence of this physical realm and also much after this physicality is over.

So I would say- you & your soulmate have ALWAYS been TOGETHER and this is one reality that prevails above all. So there's no need for you to assume that you can never be together with her because in reality you've always been. Though I know sometimes, it might be a bit hard for us to believe so especially when our perception is so confined within the physicality of things here which almost makes it impossible for us to see anything beyond the obvious. And so we often end up assuming this to be our ultimate reality & ourselves as mere physical beings who have the OPTION to lead a spiritual life here; whereas the truth is - we’re in reality SPIRITUAL BEINGS sent to live a physical life here, in order to Learn, Grow and Accumulate a certain experience in a physical sense of things. And once the lesson is completed, our soul has to return to its source & our soul is the ultimate reality that would persist & is preserved beyond that.

So now, according to my knowledge of soulmates, I would say that when they're brought together in this physical world, that's mostly to fulfill a specific purpose of God- a certain plan which is often much larger than our own personal goals and so involves the entire mankind in a much broader sense as well. So I would say if it’s God’s will that you be united with your soulmate then it’ll definitely come to pass because whatever he has planned for you & your life would definitely yield fruit & would serve its purpose. So be happy & don’t be disheartened because both you & your life are in the hands of your creator who is a very wise & loving nurturer. So while our life unfolds, lets us just trust in the Lord with all our hearts & without ever leaning on our own understanding, because being the creator, he always knows the best & is also too powerful to make everything beautiful in its own time because time itself is his creation & only he has the authority to contain time. So cheer up :)
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Answer 9

Hi Enki, this question touched my heart, (my other account was suspended for telling jokes LOL)

Anyways, about your question, Its the same thing that happened to me, i met my soul mate, but we couldn't be together because of different religion (in my country that is a problem), we fought everyone, because we know that we are meant for each other, i know that no one could satisfy me in any way other than my love, he is the one i wake up thinking of, he is the one i call many times a day, he is the one that when im mad or happy i call him to say what i have and what i feel,

He is the one i rely on everyday, and he is the one i wanna eat lunch, dinner and breakfast with.

So if you are sure that she is your soul mate, don't let the "never" be in your way..

Remember you can find love anytime you want, but your soul mate only comes once

Answer 10

Assuming there is only one soulmate for each of us...If I had actually met this person and I was sure he was my soulmate (which is what I think you imply in your question) I would find a way to be with that person. I'm soft and squishy inside...I really couldn't imagine any other alternative than not being with who I feel I am meant for....What is *really* more important than love?

What's for ya, won't go by ya. But, even destiny involves free will and choice...

The only exception I can imagine in all this (at least, for me) is if you met your soulmate....but, then....the person was taken too early in life. Tragic, but that would certainly prevent a union...at least in life =(...