well i am 13 and i had sex with a 16 year old last week. its nothing i usually do and none of it was planned. its my first time but i didnt use a condom. i done it 3 weeks after my last period and and my period is now a week overdue. i have been getting cramps, mood swings, headaches and i have been feeling ill, these are not all signs of pregnancy are they, i mean, this can just be side effects????
2007-06-04 03:11:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I suggest you get yourself to the docs immediatly. They'll offer you a free test and advice in confidence. Try not to worry, but do try and condider what it is you actuually want should you be pregnant. And be prepared for an HIV test too - unprotected sex is so prevelant - you should be tested every time this happens, and so should the chap you were with. I'll be thinking of you!
2007-06-04 03:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
TBH there are few side effects of unprotected sex.
1. STD or worse AIDS
2. Pregnancy.
But I suppose an overdue period may give effects like you've described.
I'm a bloke, I don't pretend to know how a girl / woman feels during a period either pre or post, but just standing back and looking at what you did, from your own point of view let alone other individuals, you must admit you've been bloody stupid.
I sincerely hope that all turns out well.
2007-06-04 03:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mark C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those are pregnancy symptoms, but they could be from something else. Get a home test. And for God's sake, Stop having sex! Ur only 13! And if u won't take that advice, Use a condom, at the very least. Birth control (pill, patch, etc..) is also crucial. The next decisions you make could affect the rest of your life, if they haven't already!
2007-06-04 03:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...sure, you could be pregnant. Unprotected sex always yields the possibility of pregnancy no matter the timing. Can you get a ride/take a bus/subway to the drugstore for a pregnancy test? They are around $15. The sooner you know your situation, the better equipped you'll be to make a decision about what to do next. There is no sense berating you for what you've done-we all make mistakes- but there is ALOT on the line for you here. Take care of yourself, respect yourself and be SAFER next time.
2007-06-04 03:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you're 13 you shouldn't be having sex with a 16 year old, cause I'm telling you no matter what he told you, that's all he wanted.
Sometimes you skip your period, it could just be a coinsidence, and you're not likely to get pregnant everytime you don't use a condom, but obviously you're not the brighest crayon in the box since you had sex with a 16 year old and didn't use a condom.
2007-06-04 03:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Early signs of pregnancy vary from person to person and baby to baby, so it's difficult to give an opinion. Also, it is very early. Mood swings are a sign, as is nausea, breast tenderness, having to pee a lot more often but these tend to happen after a few weeks. Are your periods usually regular? Maybe you should be thinking about who to go to for advice if you are pregnant, and for contraception if you're not.
2007-06-04 03:18:41 · answer #6 · answered by proud walker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well being a week overdue at your age is nothing serious....all the signs sound like pms but you can always head over to planned parenthood and get checked but I think its too early...and just to tell you with all the STD's out there the last thing you should be worried about is pregnancy you need to be more careful you could end up with AIDS or herpes or countless others and you are only 13 those things will be with you for the rest of your life if you dont be more careful
2007-06-04 03:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Rich O 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the cramps,headaches,and ill feelings are all probably due to you being upset, and a nervous wreck worrying, and maybe even due to your period getting ready to start :) when your pregnant, you shouldn't/dont have cramps unless there are complications.. I think you are not pregnant, however if you dont start by next week, you sould either tell your mom, an aunt, or the school nurse. you may need to be examined to see what is goin on.I wont give you the lecture about "safe sex", or about how young you are, but play it safe, let someone know if no period next week,take care of yourself lil one.
2007-06-04 04:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by becckl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be comfortable suggesting you options as you are still young. Having sex at an early age and getting pregnant is emotional trauma for a young girl like yourself. So instead of getting worried, i would discreetly get a pregnancy test and read the instructions carefully. If negative it gives you an ease of mind and you'll find that the cramps, mood swings, headaches could just be symptoms of PMS.
2007-06-04 03:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by Tracy 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well, the change could be due to stress, emotions, hormones and all other sex-related stuff.
above all, if the guy actually ejaculated in you, you are most probably pregnant. go see a doctor, because for at least two more weeks all supermarket tests will give you negative-no matter what. blood test is the only test that could actually detect that low a hormone concentrations (below 15micro)
2007-06-04 03:20:54 · answer #10 · answered by chem_freak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋