I cry my eyes out until I feel better. And it depends on what the loss is how long I cry for. But I sure cry! That's the best way to let it all out to carry on with a clean heart. The sun usually shines a lot brighter after a good cry!
2007-06-04 08:58:20
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answered by Sunbeam 5
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you just named three major events in a persons life. Just one of these alone would justify stress and unhappiness. With all three combined I would say you are holding up better than most under the circumstances. Give yourself permission to be sad but not overcome with saddness. When things look dim and unbearable in the natural just remember we are about more than what our eyes see and our feelings feel. Everything passes with time and all things must be passed through. Press forward and don't wavier to the left or right. Do all that you can do within the power you have been given and then release the rest into the hands of God. That is the only power and control you have over forces beyond you.
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answered by benita 3
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I isolate, clean, and cry. I have experienced a great deal of loss in my 56 years on this planet. If I can get my grief out alone, and do something somewhat positive, like clean until I'm exhausted, I seem to get over the loss a little faster. We never really get over it though; time just removes some of the pain.
I hope your week is a fantastic one that is filled with complete joy! Annie
2007-06-04 01:53:45
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answered by Anonymous
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Mourning a loss is a very important step in the grieving process. Take time to do that because if you don't, it will come back and haunt you sometime in the future. In grieving, celebrate that person or animal's life. God Bless.
2007-06-04 01:53:43
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answered by Anonymous
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My most recent loss was in the form of a divorce.
The grieving process, whether death or divorce is involved, is basically the same.
When I finally quit feeling sorry for myself, I started getting out more, meeting people & making new friends. I joined a support group & became more active with my church. I got closer to my family.
These things helped me the most.
2007-06-04 11:11:42
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answered by WillyC 5
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After recently suffering a loss of my own. I found that helping others. Has made a big difference in how I cope with my own situation. I wish you the best with your day.
2007-06-04 10:42:32
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answered by Nunya Bidniss 7
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its very hard but its best to cry when the feeling is there try not to bottle it up cause that does not help, & in time the pain gets less & its ok to say when ever you feel you have been numb for long enough to say i've cried enough & if i just move on now that does not mean i love them any less, so try to just think of the Happy times when the sadness comes never think of the horrible time keep pushing that out of your mind!!! & in time things will be better I know cause i have been there
2007-06-04 01:54:13
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answered by ausblue 7
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I was always told that time heals all wounds...but it doesn't. I have realized that the pain never goes away...but just finds a comfortable place within you so that you can deal with it...but it's always there.
I try to remember the person for who and what they were to me....and that the person is no longer suffering or in pain.
I hope I help answer your question.
2007-06-04 11:08:57
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answered by Nibbles 5
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I always try to keep the good things and funny things on my mind and force the bad thoughts out. They say we all have angels!
2007-06-04 01:41:34
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answered by seaturtle36 6
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a intersting question wether u lose someone physically or ina relationshio.Will time really heal the wounds I dont know Only time knows
2007-06-04 01:50:19
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answered by legolas g/Frederich 4
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