he was texting her very flirty msgs when we started seeing each other, which i didnt mind, and when we officially started going out he txt her saying they couldnt see each other anymore, which was great. but i read his phone the other night and he is still texting her extremely flirty messages, and i found out they meet up for a 'film night' every week, but when i ask him what hes doing those nights he tells me hes working late. he doesnt know ive read the msgs on his phone, and he tells me that she is just a good friend. but hes always sending her txts saying things like 'yr gorgeous, see you later sexy' + stuff. he tells me he loves me and that he wouldnt ever cheat on me, and hes so sincere when he says it, but i dont know.
2007-06-04 00:21:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
how do i tell him i know? i know i was wrong reading his phone.
2007-06-04 00:31:36 · update #1
Dump him, he's been lying and cheating on you, if you hadnt read his phone you wouldnt of known what was going on behind your back, get rid of him, you deserve someone who will be honest with you in a relationship....
2007-06-05 15:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, i assume the easy answer could be...is he exhibiting much less pastime in you? you do no longer might desire to respond to to us, yet save that for the period of techniques. in case you're the two conventional and you do no longer experience like she's getting greater interest...then possibly it is not a large deal. there is likewise...what's your gut telling you? Did you ask this in basic terms because of the fact this is been on your techniques, or is there something heavier in the back of it...? a real concern or undertaking feeling? those are in basic terms issues to keep in mind in this occasion. I grew up around adult adult males. My acquaintances are purely adult adult males. I spent the completed day the day previous to this with my chum who has a female chum. we don't have greater advantageous thoughts for one yet another. we have no chemistry. We do have relaxing. We even made a grimy shaggy dog tale the day previous to this (he grow to be my ex so we've a minor historic previous). It does not pass everywhere however. he's def way warmer now too. yet there's no longer something there...purely a stable friendship. It relies upon. this is no longer something yet a large friendship, or it is so lots greater. possibly, ask him quickly out. ESP in case you experience such as you're being pushed to the area. in case you're transforming into interest and not something has replaced with you 2...possibly in basic terms permit this is? It comes down on your gut incredibly. in case you experience this is something that desires to be reported with him in greater factor...then do it.
2016-11-04 21:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by brandt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the jerk. He is one of those guys that just like to live dangerously. The excitement is in the thought of getting caught. I know someone just like that. They do not change. It goes on even after marriage. You deserve much better than that. Don't stay with him, he will break your heart!!
2007-06-04 00:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this beyonce? Rihanna is hotter don't put your answers here! Get help!
I'm kidding confront them about this or get even and some fun of your own :)
If you are not really happy about it give him an ultimatium, you don't need that kinda drama in your life.
2007-06-04 00:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by Tomas Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it obvious already? If he likes to play on two fields, do the same. Don't believe him. Come on, there are plenty of guys in this world, have fun and stop believing an obvious cheater.
2007-06-04 00:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by shadygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating on you
If he really loved you he would have told you about the texting and he would have stopped by now
2007-06-04 00:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is lying to you and cheating on you. You have obviously decided to turn a blind eye and live your life as a sucker. So what's your question?
2007-06-04 00:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one question.... why are you still with him? obviuosly his been lying and cheating on you. reading his messages on his cellphone maybe wrong but him cheating and lying to you are not wrong?
2007-06-05 10:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by wildflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u deaf ,dumb nd blind?ofcourse he is cheating on u..go teach him a lesson by trickery.........do sumthng by wch he automatically accepts dat he is cheating on u........
2007-06-04 00:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by nishtha g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose him
2007-06-04 00:47:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋