2007-06-03 22:49:12 · 13 answers · asked by Shelly V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm assuming you already tried talking with him about it. If it really bothers you leave. Tell him you'll come back if he tones it down or gets professional help. You have to do something now. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone that has a bad temper?
2007-06-03 22:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by pilljills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with That Guy on this one. The only thing that I can add to that is I have seen very meek like in character people turn short tempered as well... I wish could suggest something to control that but its something that does affect the other over time and can never really be conformed. Expect some really fired up arguments. But, you also have an affect, (if you are meek like in character) to balance him out. Granted not in all cases but in most, people will conform to the other, a little. So you will become a little more like him and he will become a little more like you.... good luck.
2007-06-03 23:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by avengress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A short tempered man needs to learn how to respect his peers and mate. If you are becomming unhappy, HE needs without fail to go see a therapist and work on his personality. Short temperments can lead to physical issues and if you see signs of this you need to just cut your losses and get out of the marriage and let him deal with this on his own. This type of personality is not acceptable long term and will not go away over night. Good luck
2007-06-07 20:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by city girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am short tempered as well. Not violent but short tempered. There is a difference. The best thing for you to do is remember that most of the time it is not you he is mad at. Secondly if you are going to talk with him about something do it when he is not angry. You will get a better outcome.
2007-06-03 22:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it a little late to be asking about this? You knew he was short-tempered before you got married. Why didn't you ask then? Short-tempered people have very short marriages!
2007-06-04 05:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him into some anger-management counselling, or go for joint couples counselling with him. If he refuses, get a divorce before too much more water flows under the bridge. Come on, you know as well as I do that knowing he had anger problems, you should have never married him in the first place.
2007-06-03 23:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depend on what you are willing to take. If he is short tempered, maybe he is not aware of it. Sometimes you can help redirect this behavior without him knowing.
2007-06-03 22:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be calm.ur newly married also u feel hurt but u have to be calm for some time. there r so many ways u can turn around ur husband.give a kiss.he will be ok. all the best.
2007-06-03 23:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by revathy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you tell us...how long have you known this man? Has he showed his anger at you while you were dating? Did he become violent? Physical? Because if he did show you that side of him, then you just set yourself up by marrying him!
2007-06-07 18:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by Gipper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like his attitude, don't waste time. Divorce & Search for nice person who really loves you and spend life with him.
All the best
2007-06-03 23:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by shivanand d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋