all my friends are "hot" and they can all get hot girlfriends,, but i'm sorta the ugly duckling. i nearly cry to sleep everyday with an exploding headache and can't stand it. any tips would do?
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2007-06-03 21:34:39 · 7 answers · asked by yuperonihomiebalonie 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
unfortunately, at your young age, many things are about appearance and whats hot and whats not...thats the way life is for all teenagers...i had the same experience myself feeling left out of the dating loop but instead of sitting around crying about it, i focused on other things like my artistic skills...you should work on getting better at the things youre good at...when you get older you will meet more mature girls who wont be focused so much on how you look and more on those other things you possess like intelligence and personality and talents...thats why you should work on those things now because it will pay off later in your more prosperous years when you get to meet matured girls...
2007-06-03 21:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say you're the ugly duckling infact i think you're being very hard on yourself..
You will fing miss right soon enough & that person will be extra special..I bet you have a lovely personality & thats the most important thing..
Maybe spend time away from these so called hot friends as they obviously get you down..
Don't be sad.think positive & your luck will change for sure..
2007-06-03 21:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off F@CK the person who said suicide, that's stupid (maybe not to stupid for them to consider)
well, it sounds like they're "in" maybe they can hook you up. tell them you're available and are on the market
or you can get new friends that don't make you feel bad about yourself
also, change your attitude of being the "ugly duckling"--of course no girls is going to want to go out with someone who doesn't even believe in themselves!
2007-06-03 21:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start taking care of yourself. Practice good hygene and eat healthy. Lift weights and pack some muscles. It doesn't how ugly you look cuz if you have muscles it will multiply your sex appeal by at least 5. Most of all, have confidence
2007-06-03 21:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by Stan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't' be hard on yourself! Physical appearance is not the issue. Show the chicks what you're good at and stop the self-pity. Emphasize your assets and you'll be a magnet! Be happy and good luck!
2007-06-03 22:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by lanisoderberg69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Count your blessings you have friends! They aren't your friends for nothing-----Your a cool guy to worthy of friendship. Now this I'm unworthy whine is not correct, at the present your not hooked up, I don't remember getting a guy just for my buddies sake. That blows. Recruit one of your friends girls to introduce you to a charming friend of hers. Keep your humor chum.
2007-06-03 21:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F4ck that guy^ and f4ck the social norm. If a ***** is so shallow that she won't consider you worth her time solely on the basis that you're unattractive then she isn't worth your time.
Keep on keep'n on man
2007-06-03 21:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by Alex S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋