to be they always want to bring a bad side into it and it really drags me down and makes me suffer from depression why is there so much hate around these days how can i find really nice people and be happy in work and in a relationship
2007-06-03 21:30:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i have the same problem-let me know when you find the answer
2007-06-03 21:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by Samurai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a tough lesson to learn that out there in the big bad world others dont abide by the same standards as you.
You are obviously a really nice person and people have a habit of dissapointing you.
But thats what it is to be human, this is their problem not yours. You are more spiritually enlightened than them and must not change.
Dont let them drag you down. Keep positive
2007-06-07 11:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't expect so much. Sometimes we cheat ourselves out of happiness because we expect a lot of others. Unfortunately only we can make ourselves happy. Just do your work, and go home. As for personal relationships--every one of them has rough times. Get used to the fact that things can not always go wonderful. That is how we learn about each other, and our differences.
You may be suffering from clinical depression. Talk to your doctor about your depression.
2007-06-03 21:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
l work for travel west midlands, l started there 2 months ago and everybody is really nice. as for finding nice people l dont know that one, maybe change jobs till you find what you want and a nice person in a relationship will turn up for you.
2007-06-03 21:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to accept that you can't please everybody. Don't be dragged down by some envious people, instead learn something from it and be strong. Dump those bast*rds and find another friend. There's always someone there in need of a real one.
2007-06-03 22:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by lanisoderberg69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life isn't fair at all. You don't go to work to make friends. You just have to be your self and forget about how people act towards you. You have to act like you don't care. People aren't really nice to nice people these days. They walk all over them. Its sad i know but you have to be strong and ignore it. Keep your head up!
2007-06-04 01:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by scoopie110 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is by no means guaranteed, but try getting a job in a place with kinder people---organic food shop, record store,
coffee house,smoke shop---like that.
2007-06-07 15:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other people will almost always look out for themselves, and you must learn to deal with it and not let it get to you.
http://www.feelinggood.com
2007-06-03 21:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres a bad apple in every bag!
2007-06-03 21:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by cee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditto, maybe we are just here to be doormats
2007-06-03 21:44:48 · answer #10 · answered by jcampwick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋