I've always been attracted to older women... I don't know why, but I do know that I enjoy their company a lot more. Most women will not even bother with me just because of my age. I know all about "to each his own" and all that, but is it wrong to be attracted to women 20 years older? I've been told so many times, but I refuse to believe it... lol What do you think?
2007-06-03 20:24:41 · 12 answers · asked by jhiieri 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Senior Citizens
theres nothing wrong for being attracted to older women. I know alot of older women who are divorced and they go thru a stage where they wanna feel young again and they date younger guys. But then again...most of the young males take advantage of older women by using their money since they're more experience.
2007-06-03 20:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it. You're likely to make someone very happy. I'm married to a man 15 years younger than I am. We were friends first and I wasn't interested. I thought he was way too young. But as I got to know him I realized what a kind heart he has. He's a good looking, fit, smart man and he could be with a woman his age but he choose me. We have a lot in common and keep very busy. Although I'm 57, I feel like I'm in my twenties. I still run, bike and snowboard and hope I can keep it up! Exercise is the fountain of youth! Don't worry about what others think. It's up to you and only you to find your happiness. Good luck!
2007-06-04 13:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you both like/love each other I'd say it's okay. The only thing is, if you marry them, there's a chance they'll die 20 years before you. But I say, if you can find someone 20 yrs older than you that shares your feelings, go for it.
2007-06-06 20:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everyone that said it doesn't matter about the age. When I meet people I see each one as an individual. No age, no color, no weight, no heighth.
I have been attracted to men of all ages depending on the words that came out of their mouths.
2007-06-06 05:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by ginger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's mutually agreeable, then who cares about the numbers??? I'd probably hesitate to get involved with someone 20 years younger than me, but that's mostly because I find it unlikely that we'd have much in common, and few shared experiences. It's not likely - but anything is possible.
2007-06-04 03:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships between persons of that large an age difference are difficult because you do have the the same amount of life experience or the same cultural references.
2007-06-05 22:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are as old or young as you feel. If an older woman who feels young likes you too..Go for it.
2007-06-04 05:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by Afi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are a legal adult at 18 years old. before then is too young, after that its up to you, what do you think is too old for you? it doesn't really matter as long as your an adult.
if your worried about what everyone else thinks then maybe your not mature enough.
2007-06-04 03:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by bigdee_x 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One thing you learn as you get older is....there's no such thing as what's right or wrong for everyone.
If you like older women....then that's who you should be with.
2007-06-05 20:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practical elderly women's have alot of experience in life so they really can tune you up man.
2007-06-04 06:55:07 · answer #10 · answered by salam a 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋