If she gives you her phone number, would you be hesitant to call? Maybe she's not interested?
2007-06-03 20:01:15 · 13 answers · asked by . 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I dont know if this was purely directed towards other guys for their methods but I feel as a girl/female I should answer this.
If a girl gives you her number, and shes not laughing insanely with her girlfriends like theyre playing some big joke, shes interested.
As for the guys that are saying 'wait a day or so, you dont want to appear desperate', if some other guy got her number and calls her first and she says busy from then on...arent you going to kick yourself because you waited?
I wouldnt think a guy was desperate if he called me the day I gave him my number, I would think he was excited to set up a date. After all, just because you call that day it doesnt mean youre getting a date that very day. I would only think a guy was desperate if while on the phone he was begging and begging for a day to go out, and called non-stop but that also borders on crazy lol.
So in short, ditch the guy rule about waiting to call, dont be worried about calling her, just do it. And if she does say something about you calling so soon, just flatter her and say you wanted to hear her voice or something along that line :-P
2007-06-03 20:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by lil_devil_girl3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like calling her - get going!
When I was single I would never hesitate if I was interested myself. What can happen - she says no and then what?
You have just found out what you are now afraid of.
But if she is interested and you do not call - then what?
Well you will not find out, and you can ask yourself for the rest of your life - or at least until you forget her.
2007-06-03 20:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by Henrik s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I call the next day. I don't believe in playing waiting games. The sooner you call the more she'll know that you're really interested.
2007-06-03 20:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He who hesitates is lost. I give a day to not sound desperate. Otherwise I've hesitated enough already.
2007-06-03 20:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by Son of a Mitch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you have her number so you know she likes you enough to give it to you so shes not going to reject you or anything and for the fact she gave it to you instead of you asking for it means she really like you so i would just make the call because if you dont soon, then she'll think you dont like her and then you will totally lose your chance with her! just call her what do you have to lose?
2016-05-20 23:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by joanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she takes the time to give me her number, I will take the time to call her, who knows I might get lucky
2007-06-03 20:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by Gumbo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never ever ever call her first...you need to wait for her to show an interest
2007-06-03 20:10:54 · answer #7 · answered by yadda yadda yadda 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You never know unless you call.
2007-06-03 20:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by OC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she gave you her number then she is interested...
2007-06-03 20:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by Lefty 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just go for it, you never know unless you try
2007-06-03 20:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by ☮Witty Sarcasm♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋