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I'm 23, male, in love to someone. Can I now marry? I run my family's business and got a nice income.

2007-06-03 19:30:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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If you are emotionally ready for marriage, I'd say "go for it"!

2007-06-03 19:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You marry when you want to and you have a partner who also wants to. There is no "right time". Having said that, biologically our brains don't fully develop until sometime between ages 25 to 30. So, arguably, you're a bit young to make the best decisions. Biologically it can be argued that people shouldn't get married until closer to 30. But try telling that to a young couple with dreams and ambitions and raging hormones. So do the best you can. Look at the pluses and the minuses, consult your friends, check the stars and the tarot cards and then make up your own mind. Your chances of success are about the same no matter what age you are when you marry.

2007-06-04 02:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0 1

Hey this is the best time for you to get married. You are 23 and got a good doing and you also have a good person whom you love. If she also agrees then go ahead and get married as soon as possible and enjoy your youth happily.

2007-06-04 02:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0 0

Yea I believe 23 is a good age, I married at 18 and wished I wouldve waited longer.

2007-06-04 02:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lily 2 · 0 0

If you have to ask (strangers), I would say NO! You are not mature enough to rely on your own intuition. No one should have to advise you to get married, or not to. You and she alone should be making that decision. THERE IS NO RIGHT AGE OR TIME SET IN STONE....THERE IS THE RIGHT 'SITUATION' FOR GETTING MARRIED THOUGH.

You have the career,? Good. You have the woman? Good
You (and she) have no baggage that would interfere with your union? Good. You both have discussed finances, children, religious concerns, each others debts, how to handle in-law demands, and have decided that life is too short to put it off any longer---YOU ALL SEEK TO COMPLIMENT EACH OTHER, NOT SUPPLEMENT EACH OTHER AND YOU HAVE ASKED HER IDEAS ABOUT IT?. GOOD!

CAN YOU THINK OF ANYTHING ELSE TO QUESTION? GOOD.

SO, YOU TELL US. SHOULD YOU TWO GET MARRIED?

2007-06-04 02:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It shouldnt matter how well off you are but it dose help. from my own personal experince (im 23 as well and currently going through divorce) make sure that is something you both truly want and honestly i wouldnt jump the gun if you havent known her for that long of a time all and all its up to you and her and only you two dont let anyone make decisions for you.

2007-06-04 02:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Marriage is very serious and shouldn't be taken lightly. I would definetly ask your family and friends for their opinion first. Don't rush into it and take your time! Make sure you define you defintion of "in love". Are you willing to make sacrifices? Would you give your life to this person? If you answered yes with definite certainty, I say go for it!

2007-06-04 02:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by drama_queen 3 · 0 0

The best time to marry is when you find the right one for the proposal!
Sounds like you would be a good candidate for eligible bachelorettes... Much luck!

2007-06-04 02:34:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jenblossom 6 · 0 0

True love does not run on a time table. Stop looking at marriage as an investment. Look at marriage with your heart.

2007-06-08 02:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I've met a lot of couples who married young and divorced quickly. I've also met a few who have been together their entire lives. So, I say, do what feels right.

Personally, I've promised myself that I would wait until I am 25.

2007-06-04 02:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by megan f 2 · 0 0

if thats whats both parties want because just dont do it because you are in love,thats what you fell right now take ya time if ya'll in love foreal then thats going to be a wonderful thing for both good luck.

2007-06-04 02:34:21 · answer #11 · answered by msstockny 4 · 0 0

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